I think I am a fairly top tier in terms of live players, especially at the stakes I play. I used to play pretty high online, but dropped down to play live a lot after black friday and have enjoyed the change of pace. Since then I've played a lot of live and have been doing very well. I was doing uni before, so I'm going pro tentatively.
I've given this advice a lot, but I think one of the keys to having a good long-term relationship with poker is to a) have a fulfilling life outside of poker b) find poker interesting. If the only thing you think about is poker, you'll get burnt out soon, so you need other healthy things to do. Having other diversions also means that over time you will miss poker, so every time you have a break, or even just spend time exercising, playing games/sports, etc, you actually get back into the grind with the right attitude. Not playing poker when you don't feel like it helps you from associating bad feelings with poker.
Finally, having lots of people to discuss high/interesting levels of poker theories is important as it keeps the game fresh; learning new poker variants online can also give you a fresh change, and sometimes allows you to keep in touch with poker while also not doing the same thing over and over. Playing some MTTs online or headsup gives me some fresh perspective between live grinds. Playing and bricking a billion MTTs in a row in general makes everything else feel more fun, so that's also a boon.
From my experience, I'd say that managing your lifestyle in those ways is most important.
Obviously working on your game matters a lot too, and keeps things interesting.
Everyone knows this, but it's best to see life as one long session and to avoid thinking about results much unless it's actually relevant. It's obviously useful for certain things, like analysing edge and knowing how much money to keep in br/bring to casino. In fact, for the former, I would argue that having a good player you know to analyse your game and edge is a far better way to do it than through results.
I might sound hypocritical since I post a lot in this thread, but in some ways there's no point even estimating one's own winrate. I mean it's useful when you're not sure, to gain some reference points, to discuss with other regs, but you should spend too much time thinking of it. The only reason to really think about winrate is when deciding where/what stakes you play on, and whether you can afford your lifestyle. I think basically all pros are recommended to be extra safe with their budgeting anyway, since they can't get insurance as readily, so as long as you do that I am sure it's fine.
fwiw I've known some pros who used to beat the games by a lot and didn't save up, and now can barely beat 1/2 online. As long as you're not wasteful I doubt it'd be an issue.
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Originally Posted by Pay4Myschool
Largest win at $1/2 was $1200 this year, so its 1/3 of my biggest session. Biggest upswing about 3k, also consistent with 1/3
Yeah, that's more than fine. If your downswings are smaller than your upswings I can't imagine it being a huge problem, because in general you will have more upswings than downswings.
It becomes a problem when your downswings are bigger than your upswings, which can happen when you play in a game with lots of regs and 1 or 2 fish that aren't too deep. You're not getting stacks from the regs that much, and if the fish don't reload too much, you're rarely winning that much, and the only time lots of money changes hands is if the fish stacks you. While we all like to not tilt, a situation like this could create a super high variance situation as you try to make pots vs fish bigger and other regs also pump up the variance to get a piece of the fish money.
And obviously in these situations, even if you win the stack back you might still be down or just even (since other regs will win some of that money off the fish too).
So in these games very often you have lots of small-mid wins, and occasionally some big losses. If in these games you unluckily get some big losses strung together, it can hurt a lot.