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Originally Posted by JimmyVee
I agree with all that. It's just that V2 happens not to be an idiot, and V1's terror of getting bluffed heads up doesn't kick in when the pot is three-way.
V2 in fact is such a non-idiot that he donk-bet Aces up and got my stack. He knew he wasn't getting paid if I missed, so he went ahead and prevented me from playing pot control. Props to him.
One of the best things I did for myself was give myself permission to be out played.
Before, I would always have this fear of someone outplaying me. My ego would get involved and I would constantly be thinking, "Okay, how can I outplay villain, what sick poker move can I do to win this pot because I am awesome..."
About a year and a half ago, it occurred to me that poker is more than just the cards and that villains can beat me two ways.
#1) they can have better holdings than I have
#2) They can outplay me.
And my epiphany came when I accepted both of the above.
Sometimes, I will be in a situation where I have a strong hand and villain just makes an incredibly good play utilizing the perfect turn or river scare card. Perhaps its a perfect blocking bet or maybe a great bluff or maybe its a bet that will pot commit me and villain has indicated he is shoving next street...
When this happens, I accept it just as if V turned over his hand and showed me quads... And it doesn't matter if V was bluffing or semibluffing. I just "accept" that he made a great play and I have to fold...
I probably encounter this once or twice a session and I'm 100% fine with it.
I sense you may be having similar problems. I'm sure you are probably one of the better players in your area. In this spot, V's donk bet into you really is a good play. Rather than think "How dare he donk bet into me... I'm going to out play him. He doesn't know who he is effing with!!!" it would be much better to think, "You know what, great play by villain, maybe he has it, maybe he doesn't, but his bet puts me in too tough a spot to profitably continue so I'm going to let this one go and adjust to him next hand..."
food for thought.