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Originally Posted by venice10
Pretty much the definition of tilt is not being able to logically consider things through denial. In the widest sense of the word, well over half the players at any table are on tilt as soon as they sit down because they believe they can win money or break even when the reality is most won't.
I'll leave the thread open a bit, but I expect a bunch of posts basically saying to force yourself to cool down either at the table or by leaving the table.
Fair enough, I expected more or less the same, though was hoping a few may have actually had some actually clever insight.
Maybe I should have at least tried to specify very cleary at the beginning of the post:
THIS THREAD HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TILTING OR DEALING WITH TILT.
IT IS CONCERNED ONLY WITH THE
PARADOX
THAT IS
DENIAL
, and particularly how to escape it, with reference to poker, since this is obviously why we are here.
e.g.; if you say you "force" yourself to, for example, get up and leave, that is not helpful, since the very nature of denial effectively negates your power of will to follow through on what you, on a certain level, know you probably SHOULD do.
A more helpful idea might be something like: "set a timer to go off every hour or so, perhaps it will be enough to bring you back a step and let you reassess yourself."
Personally I think this is a pretty mediocre idea, but at least it's specific.
The point is to get ideas for ways to introduce that OUTSIDE ELEMENT, an objective and tactile thing, that will allow one to escape the state of denial in its most basic form.
Another sufficiently specific idea would be: smoke some weed. Personally I don't smoke weed, and it probably has it's own pitfalls, but for the right kind of person it could definitely serve as the perfect "wake up call", and is definitely, IMO, an excellent way of dealing with denial generally.