I probably raise larger preflop, maybe even super large so I can attempt to setup an acceptable SPR to stack off too.

Just a super tough spot now, imo. Thanks to going 3way our SPR is very small, the board is uber-drawy, we're OOP, and it's also possible we are behind and just gave 21+ implied odds to stack us. I think we have to make a plan. Are we cool with stacking off? If so, bombs away and commit. Are we not cool with stacking off, and perhaps just setting up our hand as a bluff catcher if things run out ok? Then check or bet small. I think there is quite a discrepancy between our flop bet size and our turn bet size, which leaves us with a weirdo stack behind on the river, so I'm not sure if we had a plan? I'll admit that most plans suck on the flop, but I'd still like to have one.

Ghaveaplan,imoG

I think the hand is played OK. Yes, flop could be a little more and turn a little less, but I'm fine with it.

River is a soul read, but I lean toward a call the way the hand was played.

I think the river is a soul read/player dependent decision. I'm guessing you felt that on the turn you were ahead because you bet pretty hard. So what does the river 10 spades do? Back door spades: possible, AJ: unlikely but who knows, KT: possible, TT: unlikely but who knows.

Your beating all one pair kings, missed clubs, JT.

Assuming this is Oceans 11, or any california card club, I think I'm calling. I think lower limit California poker player are the worst.

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Opened with some PPs and high cards and never made it to flop

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