Fold pre to his massive 3 bet. If he is getting out of line, it doesn't mean you have to.

You could still ask what he called you with.

Grunch

I think calling the 3bet pre is spew. But Im assuming you were right since you posted this and with the cocky attitude I'm assuming AQ was good. I think this is a rare case if so. You probably ran into the small percentage of times he spews or spazzed with an over pair that wasn't JJ+

Like you said the table has been super passive and not adjusting to you. Their way of adjusting in their eyes is trapping you pre and doubling up through you with easy decisions when they limp rr you with KK+. This is ******ed, and as good lags we should see right through this but this is how fish think. A table who has been super passive to your laggynes and is now fighting back is not adjusting, they just finally got the hand they were waiting for and you fell into the trap. OMC is not adjusting. Don't pay these guys off.

His range is almost always QQ+ throw a little AK and JJ in there.

Easy fold pre