Relatively new 1/2 NL. Hero starts hand with ~360, in for 400. Villain has 1k and is drunk, talkative and friendly.
Before the hand even starts villain puts 16 on the button for a straddle. Dealer tells him (and the table) it's only a $5 straddle and he can't make it for more. Player warns table that a raise to $16 is coming.
Two limpers already to me in MP and I wake up to AsKd. I decide to limp knowing a raise is likely coming.
Another call before villain quickly checks hand and taps the $16 off the dealer button and onto the felt.
First limper (old asian lady) calls w/out hesitation. Second limper (tight asian male) also calls. These guys definitely have better-than-decent hands. I get the feeling that BTN will defend his raise no matter what I make it and I don't want to own myself with a c-bet on the flop. So I opt to call and see if I can hit the flop. We're four to the flop.
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Checked around to the villain who does the math out loud of how much is in the pot and then bets $45. Old lady folds, tight young guy folds.
I think about raising, even jamming him. For some reason I wanted to see a non-heart turn to help convince me to jam. So I call.
Turn is the Jh.
Check to the villain who fires $80. Seems like he's betting just enough to keep me around as the bets are 1/2 pot sized. I know he's talkative so I decide to talk.
"You like the Jack?" I ask.
Villain: "I like it a lot."
I think a little and decide I'm probably behind.
"If I fold will you show me your flush?" I ask.
Villain: "I usually never show but you seem like a nice guy and I'm just here to have fun, so sure."
That answer suggests I'm beat. Maybe not. But I fold.
He shows:
Lessons learned ...
I should have absolutely raised preflop, probably after his button raise but also potentially before (maybe I could have made it $16). The thought in my head at the time was "pop it to $65" and isolate. Not sure if that was enough. That would have also meant a flop c-bet of probably $110ish or a check-raise all-in depending on what the flop brought. I think raising the villain and then check-folding flop (in case of a QT2 flop or something that misses me) isn't a move I like to make. Thoughts?
I also need to work harder on coming up with plans for following streets. It's not that the villain here was unpredictable as much as what his bets represented. Help here would be appreciated.