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01-07-2010 , 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted by DrVanNostrin
I've been thinking about this stuff a lot lately. My lastest theory is that it's impossible to make a bad decision given the information you have. All regret is a result of new information or a changing utility function.
I think you're right. Another way to look at this is from the perspective of determinism. If you accept the view that free will doesn't exist and that every thing is causally determined, then regret becomes nonsensical because every decision you make is based largely on prior causes that are out of your control. I.E. you never got to choose your genome, parents, culture, etc. Furthermore, you can make choices, but that doesn't mean you have free will, because those choices are dependent on wants and desires you never got to choose.

What this all means is...take any event in your past when you made a decision. If you could rewind time back to that point. Several times if you'd like. You'd still make the same decision every single time because it's based on a set of prior causes that are always the same. Hence, there's no reason to regret anything because you were always going to make the decision you made. All you can do is look back at your decisions with the advantage of now having more information, and make adjustments for future decisions. I find this viewpoint to be very psychologically comforting.

Last edited by ILOVEPOKER929; 01-07-2010 at 09:51 PM.
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01-07-2010 , 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted by GCP
ILP, I don't believe you have to agree on all these issues to have a healthy relationship with someone.
I agree. If the sex is good and people are having a fun time together, beliefs that really have almost no impact on every day life should not ruin the party.

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I'd rather be with a princess that I have philosophical differences with than either a) someone who doesn't believe in anything or b) someone that shares my ****ed up views but has all sorts of daddy issues and a drug problem. Just my two cents. Plus, I think she's pretty cute too.
My favorite type of girl is the one who is doesn't know much about anything, but is somehow smart of enough to realize that, and she also happens to think you're very smart and is therefore inclined to believe anything you say. An obedient tabula rasa with nice firm tits and a hot ass. I don't know if this type of girl actually exists, besides in my fantasies, but one can dream.

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Ride it out for a few weeks. She may even grow on ya.
She's definitely grown on me. I love her body, her cute face, and so far she puts out whenever I want. I can only hope I'll grow on her. Only time will tell. The next time I see her, I'm gonna ask her exactly what she likes in bed so I can really excel in that department. If I can give her awesome sex, she may be more likely to put up with my "character flaws".
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01-07-2010 , 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted by ILOVEPOKER929


She's definitely grown on me. I love her body, her cute face, and so far she puts out whenever I want. I can only hope I'll grow on her. Only time will tell. The next time I see her, I'm gonna ask her exactly what she likes in bed so I can really excel in that department. If I can give her awesome sex, she may be more likely to put up with my "character flaws".


this is my strategy as well


this is for your vegetarian comment

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01-07-2010 , 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by TheHip41
this is for your vegetarian comment






QED.
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01-07-2010 , 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted by ILOVEPOKER929






QED.




yeah, but this is just like beer commercials


if I drink bud light, is some hot girl going to suck my balls because I'm drinking Bud Light?

nope



also, here is a list of items the girl left at my apartment after her second time spending the night


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toothbrush
hair dryer
slippers
flip flops
pajama pants
pajama top
shampoo
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apparently i have a live in girlfriend.


actually, i just took all of her stuff and put it in a box that's now in my front closet. when she comes over again and asks "where's my toothbrush"

"front closet"

should be good times acoming
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01-07-2010 , 11:32 PM
^^

that's not what vegetarian chicks look like here in oregon
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01-07-2010 , 11:39 PM
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^^

that's not what vegetarian chicks look like here in oregon
Is this what they look like?

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01-08-2010 , 12:19 AM
PETA tilts the hell out of me.

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It's been over 15 years since I ate meat. I phrase it this way b/c saying I'm a vegaterian implies that I'm a self-absorbed douche. That may be true, but I'd still like for people figure it out themselves.
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01-08-2010 , 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted by ILOVEPOKER929
Update on my wonderful week and a half old relationship: I'll begin with the conclusion--There are major problems and I seriously doubt we'll make it til Valentine's Day. Why is this so? Well we happen to have many different beliefs which isn't a problem in itself but she happens to be one of those weird people that love debating so she constantly brings up these differences. And after each debate, in which I'm always calm, polite and diplomatic because I don't want to rock the awesome sex boat, she always ends up upset.

I'm actually embarrassed to even talk about this because the stuff me and this girl are talking about are topics that should NEVER be discussed in the first week of a relationship. We should just be f**king, playing video games, watching movies, and talking about inane stuff like American Idol or something. Anyways, here's the list of topics we've debated/discussed over the past 3 dates.

1) She's pro-life, I'm pro-choice.
2) She's against embryonic stem cell research, I'm not.
3) She voted for McCain, I voted for Obama.
4) She's against euthanasia, I'm not.
5) She's against killing babies, I support it in certain circumstances.
6) She thinks prostitution should be illegal, I don't think it should be.
7) She against incestuous marriage, I am not.
8) She believes in God, I don't.
9) She believes a certain Jewish mystic died and came back to life 3 days later approx 2000 years ago, I don't believe in zombies.
10) She thinks life is inherently sacred, and humans are inherently more morally valuable than other animals. I don't on both accounts.

Now, I'll admit, part of this ridiculous situation I'm in right now is my fault since I technically started this clusterf**k when I asked her on the second date how she feels about abortion. (Funny thing is I actually don't remember bringing this subject up but she claims I did and I believe her since this is kind of a relevant subject to me given that I'm inserting my penis in her)

Either way, this opened up a huge can of worms given that this girl is so passionately against abortion and loves debating. All the other subjects were basically tangents that came from this original subject. Another exacerbating factor is I also happen to be one of those weird people that enjoy a good debate. I know I should be more docile but it's not in my nature. Either way, besides my initial mistake, I NEVER bring these subjects up because I know how dangerous they are. She always does. We literally can't talk long without her bringing one of these subjects up. It's a cancer that's going to quickly destroy our vulnerable, nascent relationship because she wants a guy that agrees with her.

This sux cuz I think she's very pretty, and I really enjoy having sex with her.
How has no one commented on the awesomeness of this wording?
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01-08-2010 , 12:36 AM
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Originally Posted by GCP
Except those times you say or do something and immediately regret it. Extraneous factors like pressure or substances can facilitate bad decisions as well.
Time doesn't elapse between when you do something and when you regret it? Substances alter your utility function.
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01-08-2010 , 12:45 AM
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Originally Posted by DrVanNostrin
b/c saying I'm a vegaterian implies that I'm a self-absorbed douche.
Ha! I agree. That's pretty much the image I had of vegetarians before I became one. I used to even avoid telling my dates I was a vegetarian since I figured this can only hurt my chances.
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01-08-2010 , 12:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Palomino
How has no one commented on the awesomeness of this wording?


If I ever worded it like that around her, she'd probably insta-dump me.
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01-08-2010 , 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted by ILOVEPOKER929
Ha! I agree. That's pretty much the image I had of vegetarians before I became one. I used to even avoid telling my dates I was a vegetarian since I figured this can only hurt my chances.
It's not an unfair image, imo. The PETA people earned it with all their obnoxious behavoir and insane requests. I never tell anyone I'm a vegatarian. I hate the idea of saying "I'm a vegaterian", like it's a condition or something.
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01-08-2010 , 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Palomino
How has no one commented on the awesomeness of this wording?

ilp didn't come up with that


haven't you heard of people refer to Jesus as a zombie that can fly?
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01-08-2010 , 02:59 AM
i'd just like to thank Mac Brown and the Texas coaching staff for making me some money tonight
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01-08-2010 , 03:11 AM
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Originally Posted by TheHip41
ilp didn't come up with that


haven't you heard of people refer to Jesus as a zombie that can fly?
Major cockblocker itt.
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01-08-2010 , 03:24 AM
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Originally Posted by DrVanNostrin
It's not an unfair image, imo. The PETA people earned it with all their obnoxious behavoir and insane requests. I never tell anyone I'm a vegatarian. I hate the idea of saying "I'm a vegaterian", like it's a condition or something.
PETA might be my most hated organization. When I was in undergrad I wrote a paper about how ludicrous they are. If you want to youtube around Penn and Teller did a great bull**** episode about it (by the way a very underrated show if you ever want to watch it. Many of you would like their take on religion.). My favorite contradiction of PETA is that they are against the ownership of pets yet something like 90% of their members own pets.
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01-08-2010 , 04:07 AM
xblink and akbourbon at it again 500/1k
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01-08-2010 , 04:17 AM
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Originally Posted by walsh313
PETA might be my most hated organization. When I was in undergrad I wrote a paper about how ludicrous they are. If you want to youtube around Penn and Teller did a great bull**** episode about it (by the way a very underrated show if you ever want to watch it. Many of you would like their take on religion.). My favorite contradiction of PETA is that they are against the ownership of pets yet something like 90% of their members own pets.
I saw a couple of Penn and Teller BS things. They were pretty good. Never saw the PETA one, and I'm sure they have no shortage of material.
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01-08-2010 , 10:31 AM
Actually, the one thing I don't agree with Singer is about how to treat animals and whatnot. Apparently, he eats some chicken and fish because they are said to not be self-conscious.
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01-08-2010 , 10:36 AM
Ew, I clicked on the first one and barfed a little bit as I figured the next two were also DMB. They were so 10 years ago.

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Originally Posted by DrVanNostrin
PETA tilts the hell out of me.

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It's been over 15 years since I ate meat. I phrase it this way b/c saying I'm a vegaterian implies that I'm a self-absorbed douche. That may be true, but I'd still like for people figure it out themselves.
Some guy came into my philosophy class and was some animal rights activist. I don't know if he is a member of PETA but he still tilted the hell out of me. ZOMG, eggs are chicken periods! Who cares they're delicious, you can't use the "gross me out" argument against me! etc. He showed us some pretty vile movies though, they were just gross.

Damn, 15 years. I once tried to stop just to see if I could. Ez game, imo. Vegen is another story however.

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Originally Posted by Palomino
How has no one commented on the awesomeness of this wording?
I legitimately laughed out loud here. I read it to my gf and she giggled as well. I occasionally read ILP posts to her and she laughs.
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01-08-2010 , 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by ILOVEPOKER929
Major cockblocker itt.
Although I agree with a lot of your political views and found this comment very amusing, the majority of the stuff you say (pertaining to women) disgust me...so no, thehip is not the cockblocker here.
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