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Originally Posted by nomad2211
If we talk about it on a desire only level it is equal.
I think I follow you here and I agree with you on this point. I don't think there are any desires that are intrinsically good or evil since good and evil are not real properties of this universe. They're just descriptive labels humans made up to classify what is acceptable and what is not. How we determine what behavior is acceptable is largely dependent on historical accident. Most humans deem pedophilia unacceptable. Bonobos think it's the nuts. This development could've easily been reversed.
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Originally Posted by nomad2211
II get judged for not liking people who desire to be with others of the same sex.
In order for anyone to dislike someone solely because they enjoy having sex with the same gender, there has to be an irrational believe structure at work. Not only do I think it's ok to criticize any/all irrational belief systems, I think it's imperative to speak out against them assuming one cares about the future of humanity.
In a world of WMDs and exponential technological growth curves, I don't think it takes much thought to realize that irrational beliefs such as "Heterosexuals > H0mosexuals", "All infidels must die", "non-Jesus believers should go to hell", "My country > your country", pose a great danger to us all. There is a meme war going on right now and for humans to have a shot at making it through the 21st century without blowing themselves up, almost all "hate memes" will have to be eradicated or at least subdued.
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Originally Posted by nomad2211
However that same person would possibly judge me for desiring to have sex with children. Therefor they really arent any different.
Like I indicated before, if you desire children I don't think you should be judged for this. In the game of desires you were simply dealt 72o. Conversely, someone who was born/conditioned to have desires that mesh well with the majority would've been dealt something like AA. Judging someone for having bad luck or good luck is nonsensical.
At the same time though, just because we shouldn't judge people doesn't mean we have to like them. There's nothing wrong with blocking someone from AIM if that person rubs us the wrong way. I have an uncle who's in prison for molesting young boys and girls. I feel the utmost compassion for his condition just like I would for someone who has Ted Bundy's condition, but I would still never wanna hang out with either of these guys.