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Originally Posted by Captain R
I'm not sure people are "happier" today.
I think that people tend towards a happiness equilibrium. People are happy when they win the lottery, they return to equilibrium after time. People are sad when they lose someone close, they return to equilibrium after time.
Equilibria are different. Maybe chillrob's equilibrium happiness is lower than mine, and I think it's part of what Bob and I were talking about before that it shouldn't be considered abnormal.
And equilibria can probably change over time, trending upward or downward. I'm not sure whether it has to do with the temporary ups and downs. Like maybe being above equilibrium for a while "pulls" your equilibrium up, or maybe it "pushes" it down. Maybe it does nothing. Maybe being part of a religion or charity group or having regular activities moves it up. Maybe it's different for different people. Technology may help connect people, or it may hurt by isolating people.
What troubles me is that something from 30 years ago seems to have such a lasting impact on chillrob. That's a really long time by most peoples' standards and I'm including people I know who have had some pretty awful **** happen like losing children.