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Originally Posted by Monteroy
I put Parv with Rob and Sandra in the very upper level, and a quality they all share, albeit in different approaches, is that they are very good at handling other players and being aware of their own situation. A good part to succeeding in this game is identifying and using the dummies in the game for one's own goals. Rob had Phil and Lex, Sandra had Rupert (multiple times) and a variety of others, and Parv used people like Russel (who she knew could not win) and JT who mailed her a love letter and idol, along with the guy that she helped talk into giving away immunity.
They do this in a way that puts others at ease, even as they are using them, and that can be with charm (more Rob/Parv approach) or yelling I told you so (like Sandra did at the final tribal the second time she won). Compare how they work with and use people to someone like Adam, who creates friction when he tries to do that. Others, like Ben, have no ability to even try it at all.
Does it always work? No, but it is a skill set that seems to elevate certain players to a level that few achieve, and that is why you will see all the other contestants talk with great respect when they talk about these players, and that is a metric that is important, far more so than what randos say on the internet, including myself.
The main advantage I think Parv, BRob, and Sandra have is experience plus the ability to learn from it to get better. Most people don't get the experience and many of those who get experience are incapable of learning from it effectively.
In their first seasons they were all pretty mediocre. Yeah, Sandra won, but it was a luckbox win and to top it off she was taken to the final 3 instead of someone who would have been an obvious and easy win for her F2 opponent.
However, since their first appearances, they've actually applied what they've learned and turned into much better players.
So perhaps their real advantage was being appealing enough to get the call back for the second try. Parv and BRob were definitely great characters despite the fact that they didn't go super deep the first time.
Sandra luckboxed here too, because if she hadn't won, I doubt she ever gets called back. But to Sandra's credit, she did take her experience and got a lot better in subsequent appearances, which is something that not everyone is able to do well.