Let's say that we are playing 6-max or 9-max and stealing from the BTN and we notice that a player in the blinds is likely to 3bet us a lot from our HUD data, perhaps as crazily high as 25% of the time over a medium sample size so far.
Now according to exploitative theory, part of our adjustment will be for us to tighten up our stealing range and perhaps fold Q9o, 96s etc. from the BTN for example, and also at the same time we hope that he doesn't notice this so that he still proceeds to resteal with a 25% range.
Now we can essentially call his 3bet and 4bet him at a much higher frequency as we are only stealing with say a 30% range and not a 45% range to start with.
So I can see how once we steal with a 30% range, we can gain EV against his unchanged 25% 3betting range, however, doesn't our opponent also gain EV from us because he have now folded a large chunk of slightly +EV steals so his blinds get stolen less often than they theoretically should?
How do we know that the EV our opponent gains from our 'incorrect' folds, is less than the EV we gain later on? Maybe it all just kind of evens out and it doesn't matter what we do?
This principle also applies to all manner of other spots too, where our adjustment doesn't come for 'free' so to speak, as we can be losing EV down other branches of the game tree in order to manufacture what we think is an EV exploit down a different branch of the game tree.
What gives?