"yeah I kind of noticed this vision developing, its hard to think ahead far enough though to force these tactical situations to happen, but lately I have found myself setting traps which are dependent on villain moving a peice and then trying to tempt that peice to move, by offering a piece or opening an attack route for villain which ultimatly is not fast enough to beat my trap. I think as I start playing stronger opponents though I will need more, is it just down to future thinking? I'm looking for epiphany, in most games I find there is an aha point where the curve greatly jumps"
In general, you should not make moves based on "I hope he doesn't see the right response." That's a very bad habit, and a hard one to break later when you start playing better opponents.
Just try to improve your position the best you know how, and the tactical opportunities will come.
How do you improve your position? Well, if there were a short answer to that, we'd all be grandmasters. A good newb rule of thumb is to look for your piece that is doing the least (controlling the least amount of squares, not attacking anything of value) and try to find a better place for it.
"So whats wrong with bringing my queen out? As white I often move my king pawn up to and then move queen to attack that square which often results in the worst players getting mated early..."
You'll begin to find that the other player can develop a piece "with tempo" by attacking your queen. Let's say you bring out your queen, and he moves his knight for the first time and it attacks your queen. Now you have to move your queen, so he basically got to develop his knight for free. Bringing out your queen too early can lead to your opponent getting several free moves like that.
"hanging means undefended? Isn't it just pawns which are vulnerable here? Or is it because by having to retreat you waste a move and give ground away? Any good articles or insights on the opening mechanics?"
Yes, hanging means undefended. At the noob level, you'll find that most games have something hanging that could have been captured for free at some point. That's why it's important to go over games afterwards and have better players look at your games. You may not have even noticed the opportunities.
"How do you mess up a pawn structure? I can only think of splitting the pawns up but it usually requirtes your own pawns to sacrifice so isn't it pretty neutral? I often like to trade off one of my outer pawns for a d or E pawn as I understand these two pawns are the strongest, and its one of the first things i look for, problem there though is 'am I sacrificing development?' "
Out of all the things he posted, this is the one I would probably ignore. Pawn structure is a relatively subtle concept, and it's very easy for a beginner to overestimate it (sometimes it can be very useful to mess up your opponent's pawn structure, a lot of other times the advantage is almost nothing and you can waste time and material on it.)
"Ok I will do a search, any particular?"
http://danheisman.home.comcast.net/~...m#subjectorder
I don't recall which ones are specifically good for complete noobs. But pay attention to what he says about level. If at the beginning of a column he says it is for intermediate players, skip it. It's easy to waste time reading stuff you aren't ready for in chess, and it will feel productive and understandable, but it won't really help you yet.
The ones on tactics are a great place to start. When he begins to talk about counting, do *not* assume it is as easy as it sounds. This is a very important skill to master, and it's a lot harder than you'd think off hand.
"the problem is chess isn't one move, like poker isn't one hand, a move can appear stronger, but 3 turns later it actually wasn't stronger, also there is the meta variable of villain behaviour"
Chess is a game of perfect information, unlike poker. With some rare exceptions, villain behavior really shouldn't enter in to your thought process. You should evaluate the position and make the best move you can based on it. You aren't trying to trick your opponent, you are trying to understand the position as best you can, better than he does.