You're right, it's a little bit tough to talk about it just in generalities. Here is a position (not from a specific game, but something I've run into before) that I never know how to approach.
I find this position tough to play from the white side. Developing is easy, but finding a constructive plan is another thing. Black hasn't made any committal central pawn moves, so anytime white pushes either e5 or d5, black can just push past it and lock things up. But if white doesn't make central threats, I don't know what else to do. White's pieces are developed easily, but black has nothing to really attack. Is white's best option to get in d5 and play some sort of a KID structure and play for a b4->c5 break on the queenside?
Curious to hear from anyone else as well who knows how to slay this awful beast