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Originally Posted by Jibninjas
Says who? Why is it that part of learning is not the process itself?
I assume by pain you are talking about overall pain, correct?
Disagree. You do not know this. Unless you believe that God is not constrained by his own logic, then yes you may assert anything you like. But logically I don't think this God can exist.
Yes, overall pain. The reason the argument doesn't apply to God is that I need to use tough love on my kids to teach them how to survive this world. If they could learn the lessons and survive without pain I would do that. God, however, presumably has many more options. He does not need to create a harsh world, then use tough love. He could have a nice world and have us be born with the lessons already known.
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This is the heart of the problem. You are looking at the situation as if God wants us to love him, and when we don't he throws a hissy fit and tosses us into hell. Is it not possible that the only way for the relationship to work is if we love him? Is it possible for you to have a love relationship with your wife if she does not love you? You may be willing to be around her, but if you wife hates you, do you think that she will stay around you? Or want to be around you? How long do you think you can keep up a proper relationship with your wife this way?
But the wife analogy is the wrong one. The child analogy is much better. Also, as a parent I try to make sure the punishment fits the crime: if hell is a place of eternal torment (I know there is some disagreement there, but that's still the majority position) then the punishment does not fit the crime. Also, I administer punishment to my children in order to alter future behaviour. God's punishment appears to be eternal. It is punitive only, with no rehabilitative qualities. At least according to current mythology.
If there is such a thing as eternal anything: really, we humans are incapable of truly comprehending that. So allocating us in the afterlife to either place based on our earthly audition is a crazy way to have us make decisions. It's truly cruel, especially given the uncertainty that God presumably allows.
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I have 2. My son is 7 and my daughter is 3 and I am planning on having another one soon. The are the greatest things in my life and I would do literally anything for them.
too bad God apparently doesn't feel the same way towards them, or you, or any of us.
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I don't agree that there is any other way than to have the world we live in a real possibility.
So what, you get one chance and your done? And while you are there you are given no choice? No free will? Is it possible to have a choice when you are created without the ability to make choices? Are we even living really without free will? What would be different then us just being a computer program?
First, you are making the assumption that free will is the ultimate value, I don't think that's a given. Secondly, these angels had free will, right? Even if we agree free will is really important, I'm not talking about eliminating it entirely: just limiting it somewhat (our free will is already quite limited, I'm just talking about a few additions).
In any event, is there free will in heaven anyway? In hell?
And if anything this world would be an audition for God. He has already made his choice, now we are deciding whether or not we want him.[/quote]