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If I tell you someone is a mass murderer, and tell you nothing more about them, you will probably consider them a jerk. You won't generally stop to think, "oh, maybe the guy is actually an extremely good person, just because he's a mass murderer doesn't imply anything." If, in a hypothetical unrelated to God, I told you that you meet a mass murderer, you would instantly assume "evil guy." You wouldn't stop and say "I don't know what to make of a mass murderer unless I know what kinds of people he murdered." Maybe you're a fan of Dexter, but no way when you hear about a mass murderer is your first instinct to admire the person. You'll be more likely to view them with disgust.
First off, I love the show Dexter so the analogy does hit home to me.lol. Now, as I can completely understand and agree with what you are saying, but that is not where the story stops.
If I said to you that you were going to meet a mass murder you would default to "evil guy", which would be reasonable. Then I would go on to tell you that he is a mass murder in the sense that he was in an African jungle and 20 men came to rape and murder 80 children in a school and the only way that they could be stopped was for the man to kill all 20 men. And that the man knew 100% that all 20 men would participate in this act. Now where would your position lie with the man? Because this is what I am hearing you and others say,
"Well you know some of those men were probably really good, but just were put in bad situations and you do not know that some of them didn't have families at home and that the man did not actually know that they were going to do that, even though he knew for a fact. I think that he probably did not know even though I have no reason to say that. So I think the guy is a big jerk, and I cannot believe that you like a guy that killed all of those innocent men. Man, what a terrible guy, just terrible, and anyone that thinks otherwise is also terrible."
And then I tell you about another guy in the exact same situation and you say,
"Well I would have done the same thing. Good for him"
Then I say,
"WHAT!"
Then you say,
"Stop having a double standard, jerkface!"(*jerkface was added in for effect, may not be actual verbatim conversation)
So you see, you are ending the conversation early then what is actually happening. Even when the full situation is explained, you still persist in your original opinion even though it is inconsistent because you hold a very strong double standard for some reason.