The existential crisis is the decision point of consciously choosing to care about life (in the most general sense). Caring about life is synonymous with caring about quality of life. We have to psychologically commit to caring about life in order to be able to move beyond this point.
The status quo, the dominant impulse, is to not care about life, but rather to simply survive through and cope with life. The existential crisis is a psychological/spiritual division between the two. OP is playing out the pattern of avoiding the sacrifices/responsibility of fully committing (psychologically, not intellectually) to caring about life. It has to be a full commitment or nothing is resolved and the pattern plays out indefinitely or we get stuck in coping with life.
Only once that full commitment is made are we capable of taking on the necessary defiant mindset I posted about earlier:
https://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/s...6&postcount=22
Here is a post about how to fully commit psychologically/spiritually:
https://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/s...&postcount=176
Last edited by craig1120; 01-10-2018 at 09:00 PM.