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Originally Posted by Eman6969
I wanna know personal experiences from people who claim to be atheist on the benefits they have received emotionally, dare i say spiritually, or emotionally.
Here are some of the specific emotional/spiritual benefits I've received from becoming an atheist after losing my religion.
1. I can sleep in or do whatever else I want on Sunday morning and Wednesday evening without feeling guilty.
2. I similarly never feel guilty because I am not praying or reading the Bible every day or otherwise communing with God.
3. I don't feel constrained to accept certain moral ideas which conflict with the moral code I derive from philosophy (such as ideas about refraining from sexual activity, discriminatory ideas against women and homosexuals, etc.)
4. I feel more independent and free--that my life is my own to do with as I wish, whether for good or ill. Comparatively, when I was religious I felt I had a duty to dedicate my life to glory of God.
5. I have been able to more easily become friends with other atheists because our outlook on life is similar.
6. I have been able to more easily become friends with people of other religions or religious traditions because I've adopted a more open-minded and tolerant attitude towards religion than was available to me as a Christian.
There are others, but this list probably communicates the basic idea.
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The reason i don't get it is because even the casual Christians have some hope. And i don't just mean hope in the next life I mean hope in this life. What hope is there in no god? Whether you believe in god or not its quite clear belief in god is the greatest coping skill a man can have in this world.
This is something I miss. I don't believe in an afterlife, or that god is providentially working out his will in the world, so I don't think that the world is ultimately just. Sometimes evil/laziness/stupidity is rewarded and goodness/hard work/intelligence is punished. I don't have a sense of peace or certainty that everything will ultimately work out in the end for good.
Now, this realization actually motivates me to contribute to it doing so--to increasing the justice of the world--because it is ultimately only our own human actions that will have any effect on this happening, not the spooky intentions of some sky god or world spirit.
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Without god there is nothing. No truer words were spoken. Without god you have nothing. You just deal with this tough life all alone, miserable cause you have no hope. If you are going to be miserable in this life and struggle in this life the least you could do is have some hope for the next life.
Sure, belief in god can provide a comfort to those who are miserable in this life. However, it seems better to just not be miserable in this life. This is certainly achievable without belief in god and the hope that such a belief provides. However, if you do deal with depression (as I have), or live under miserable life circumstances, then a belief in god can provide comfort. Other things can as well though, and there are other costs to deluding yourself in order to feel happy. And, for many, belief in god doesn't provide a barrier to depression or feeling miserable, or can actually deepen those feelings, so it is an occasionally useful cure for depression or misery.
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It's quite clear for anyone who knows anything about ancient civilizations that the civilizations who weren't positive didn't exist very long. What more positivity can a man have in his life but his belief in god? Wheres the hope my atheistic brothers.
This isn't clear to me at all. I suspect you are coming to this conclusion on the basis of insufficient evidence. Also, belief in god provides only one kind of hope. I can have others, such as the hope that I live a good, or happy, life, the hope that I am successful in my career, or the hope that the world will become a better place.
However, what you are really talking about here is not hope, but assurance that these things will happen. From my perspective, your assurance that they will happen is just self-delusion. You actually have no such assurance in reality, but have convinced yourself, or been convinced, that you do. I don't think that is a superior mindset to have.