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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
You can claim the victim card if you want. I'm simply telling you that the language you are using to describe what you want to describe is wrong. And rather than learning something new, you seem content to insist on the rightness of your position.
I still believe in the rightness of my position. I don't know what you think I'm supposed to learn other than that "fear" and "identity" can also mean something different than my intended use for them. My main positions are as follows. Please for god's sake, just let me know what you disagree with and not turn this into a Merriam Webster dictionary showcase.
1). 20 years ago, a big reason many gay people didn't come out or continued to hide their sexuality, was due to the very real possibility of being shunned and ostracized by family, friends, and the community at large. You can call it fear or something else. However, fear seems to be a completely appropriate word to use.
2). Homosexuality is not a choice. This almost certainly wasn't known in biblical times. People don't wake up one day and decide they're going to be gay. Since they cannot change their sexual orientation, it becomes part of who they are. You can call this identity or something else. Identity seems to be a perfectly appropriate word in describing who somebody is, or who they feel they are. You can nitpick about social constructs and subtle variations of meaning, but I still see nothing wrong with using identity here.
Now forgetting words and their