There are gradations of belief too. I am a creationist but I am not tied to the Earth being X amount of years, nor have any good idea about where the dividing line is between God making the animals and evolution giving us our diversity. But anyway, to the question.
Uke essentially nailed it for me, except switch "atheism" with "faith":
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Originally Posted by uke_master
...but for myself my atheism is an important part of my identity and something I have thought, read, watched, and discussed extensively over the years. It isn't impossible, of course, but it would seem to be much nicer to be able to be with someone who shared such a sentiment opposed to felt the exact opposite on a core part of identity. Likewise, as someone who spends a lot of time interacting with politics, and consider this a core part of my identity it would be hard to share this with someone who felt diametrically opposite of me, thinking, for instance, that gays ought not to marry or whatever else. I these things were not important to me, if they were not core to my identity, I am sure it would matter much less. Many atheists don't believe in god, but they don't care to spend much time thinking about it and it doesn't for a core part of their identity. I could see it not mattering to them.
My faith is so much a part of who I am that I need to be able to talk with that person within those contexts and not just accept that about me, but appreciate it too. She doesn't necessarily have to have the same exact ideas as me (in fact, I may not want that) but they need to be from the same vane of faith, if any of this makes sense? When Im with someone that close I want to be able to be free to express the kinds of thoughts that come out with that scent of God not just from me but also from her because I would hope that she would have things I could learn from her and vice versa...
Sorry, I think I kinda ranted a bit there.