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Originally Posted by uke_master
That's on you then. Read Original Positions post. If his father tells him that he is praying for him, Original Position is very likely correct to interpret this as an expression of caring and empathy towards him, that it transfers meaning, at least in part, rather similar to "i'm thinking about you and wishing you the best".
I did read it, but your post is not taking what I said as it was meant, but kinda makes my point for me really so I'm not going to pursue the misunderstanding. It's what you finished with that I'm interested in since it seems that if people simply mean "
i'm thinking about you and wishing you the best" when they say that they're going to pray for you, then they could simply say that, and do that, and there would be no need to pray. So, why pray? Do they actually believe that they're doing more than just thinking about you and if so, what is it?
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Don't get me wrong, I obviously don't believe in the efficacy of prayer, I don't believe in the larger metaphysics that is being appealed to when people say they are going to pray. But these very human tendencies to convey empathy towards others is, for some religious people, often expressed through this religious lens. So while the lens doesn't mean anything to me, the empathy underlying it certainly does.
The more this percolates, the more I'm thinking that when people say 'I'll pray for you/them/whoever', it has more to do with them wanting someone else to understand something about their belief system, and by association/implication, about the nature of their thoughts for them, otherwise why bring it up at all.