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03-17-2010 , 11:31 AM
there is so much wrong in the OP its tiresome just to read.
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03-17-2010 , 12:46 PM
Many of you are arguing against my stance in invalid ways.

Firstly, moral relativism IS constructed against itself.

Saying that there are no moral absolutes IS AN ABSOLUTE! You can try to dance around it, but at the end of the day it is what it is.

Secondly.

I see a few different arguments coming at me about the McDonalds guy.

There are so many fallacies in the arguments all of you are bringing up but if I didn't have 10 people coming at me at once, I would be able to answer them all specifically and deconstruct each and every one. This may take a while, but I will be responding to each one in the chronological order they appear. I have school and work, so please be patient I will get to yours.

This is the only bad part of being a Christian in these forums, I'm kind of alone and it ends up being 100vs1 in these types of threads. But I will try my best to answer all responses. I just wanted to let you all know what I am doing to respond so you don't think I am dodging your questions and avoiding responding.

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03-17-2010 , 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89
#2. Moral Relativism just DOESN'T WORK.
- Let me explain myself by providing an example. One day you are waiting in line at McDonald's and a random man approaches you and says, "Hey man, I just raped and murdered your entire family...so yeah just thought you should know." You would obviously reply,"What!!?? You are insane! That is terrible! etc etc.." To which the man could respond, "but hey, its alright for me and my morals, so who are you to tell me any different." And if we are to live in a moral relativist state, he would have a point. I could do anything I wanted to anybody and say that is ok with my morals, so I am not wrong because morals are relative.

Discuss.
Indeed. What the man should say is that ABSOLUTE morals was what made him do it, and then we'd all smile and crack some jokes.
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03-17-2010 , 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89
Many of you are arguing against my stance in invalid ways.

Firstly, moral relativism IS constructed against itself.

Saying that there are no moral absolutes IS AN ABSOLUTE! You can try to dance around it, but at the end of the day it is what it is.

Secondly.

I see a few different arguments coming at me about the McDonalds guy.

There are so many fallacies in the arguments all of you are bringing up but if I didn't have 10 people coming at me at once, I would be able to answer them all specifically and deconstruct each and every one. This may take a while, but I will be responding to each one in the chronological order they appear. I have school and work, so please be patient I will get to yours.

This is the only bad part of being a Christian in these forums, I'm kind of alone and it ends up being 100vs1 in these types of threads. But I will try my best to answer all responses. I just wanted to let you all know what I am doing to respond so you don't think I am dodging your questions and avoiding responding.
there are many Christian posters on this forum, feel free to be patient and see if any of them come to your support.
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03-17-2010 , 01:47 PM
OP what if we are caught in a traditional philosophical interpretation that is only partially true.

I say that because the 10 Commandments and Levitical Laws were given in the OT but Christians are now under new improved commandments.

The old commandments known as the absolutes are like poles or reference points for us so we can identify right from wrong or evil from good. As these poles get closer together due to more and more complex circumstances we can shift to a type of moral relativism that is guided by the Spirit because instead of having the 10 Commandments we instead have the Golden Rule which is 2 Spirit Guided commandments.

If you read the Scriptures and aim for the fruits of the Spirit, use the 2 Commandments and simply ask yourself what would Jesus do in this situation you can come pretty close to getting most moral dilemmas right.

Moral dilemmas are a result of the fall. We didn't have any in the Garden of Eden. The need for morality only arose because we fell.

So I think we are still caught in old time frozen philosophical dualism concepts. The Spirit allows flexibility between the 2 poles. Its just a matter of when you act flexibly did you act in the true spirit or not.
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03-17-2010 , 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89

Saying that there are no moral absolutes IS AN ABSOLUTE! You can try to dance around it, but at the end of the day it is what it is.
who cares. its not a moral absolute.

Moral relativists don't say there is no absolutes. They say there are no moral absolutes.

sheesh
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03-17-2010 , 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89
Many of you are arguing against my stance in invalid ways.

Firstly, moral relativism IS constructed against itself.

Saying that there are no moral absolutes IS AN ABSOLUTE! You can try to dance around it, but at the end of the day it is what it is.

Secondly.

I see a few different arguments coming at me about the McDonalds guy.

There are so many fallacies in the arguments all of you are bringing up but if I didn't have 10 people coming at me at once, I would be able to answer them all specifically and deconstruct each and every one. This may take a while, but I will be responding to each one in the chronological order they appear. I have school and work, so please be patient I will get to yours.

This is the only bad part of being a Christian in these forums, I'm kind of alone and it ends up being 100vs1 in these types of threads. But I will try my best to answer all responses. I just wanted to let you all know what I am doing to respond so you don't think I am dodging your questions and avoiding responding.
In my experience, this is shorthand for: I'm ******ed and I watch a good deal of televised sports.
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03-17-2010 , 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89
Many of you are arguing against my stance in invalid ways.

Firstly, moral relativism IS constructed against itself.

Saying that there are no moral absolutes IS AN ABSOLUTE!
No, it isn't. The fact that you say it is doesn't make it true. If you think you can prove it or provide a link to some authority backing you up, feel free. But frankly, I think you're just making this up.
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03-17-2010 , 03:00 PM
Think about it this way OP.

The truth about morality is its a paradoxical truth.

It is both absolute and relative at the same time. Its relative because when you do unto others as you would have do unto you the relative standard is yourself.

Also when you imitate Christ: God or Christ is called The Absolute.

Also Christ himself broke the OT laws when the spirit of the law was violated. That was his whole beef with the Pharisees. They were unwashed cups. They were form without substance.
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03-17-2010 , 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Pletho
Thats not an answer, thats passing the buck. The point is what is the standard that is used for morality.

Who makes that standard. Where did it come from, originate?
With Moral Relativism its the individual.
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03-17-2010 , 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by wahoo3
i don't think you're right. moral relativism is the first thing you said, not the second.
You're right, I was wrong. I was confusing it with something else.
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03-19-2010 , 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89
I have been speaking with many atheists/agnostics/skeptics, etc. lately and have been asking where they get their morals from? How do we decide what is right and what is wrong?

Almost all of the answers I am getting are some form of Moral Relativism.
Will be grunching over the next few posts as I read through the thread.

Firstly, the Argument from Morality is one of the worst theistic arguments there is. Morality cannot be arbitrarily dictated by somebody (you can call it 'his nature' or whatever you want, but this is no different from arbitrarily assigning rules, at least not in the abstract). Morality is necessarily what you consider to be right and wrong. It then follows that somebody else arbitrarily dictating what is right and what is wrong does not make sense.

Secondly, objective morality is possible through naturalistic means. The Categorical Imperative and Utilitarianism are two examples.

Thirdly, you have some misconceptions about what moral relativism implies. I will try to explain some of that in the following.

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For those not familiar with Moral Relativism, let me inform you, because you may be a moral relativist and not even know it.

The moral relativist view states that morals are essentially, relative... Meaning that what I think is right and wrong is fine for me, but may not be right for you but that's ok, because whatever is right for you is right for you, because morals are relative to the person they belong too.
The concept is correct, in that it means different people can have different ideas about what is right and wrong. However, to say 'what is right for you is right for you... and that is okay' is misleading. Moral relativism does not mean that every judgment is on an equal level. For one, it is possible to consider that something is 'right' in and of itself, but that that something carries with it necessary consequences which are harmful. Moral relativism does not mean we cannot reach a consensus about what is best. For another, that something is subjective does not mean that there has to be a wide variety of opinion on the matter. Something can be subjective, yet the majority, in fact the entire population, can still agree on it. Most people would probably agree that dog crap on pizza would taste bad. It is still subjective.

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There are a couple of fallacies in this worldview that I would like to point out considering it easily one of the most popular worldviews among us today.

#1. Its an argument that is constructed against itself.
- Moral relativists will tell a moral absolutist that there no absolutes... Well guess what, you just made an absolute. Saying that there are no absolutes is an absolute within itself, so you just contradicted your own argument...
That is ridiculous. I do not think most would make that claim. And it certainly is not a necessary claim of moral relativism. Perhaps you misunderstood what those people were trying to tell you. It is not necessarily that everything is relative, just morality. The 'everything is relative' claim is not a position most people hold, and is fairly naive. If one does want to hold that position, however, the exception would of course be that 'everything is relative.' There is nothing logically wrong with everything being relative (with the exception of 'everything being relative').

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#2. Moral Relativism just DOESN'T WORK.
- Let me explain myself by providing an example. One day you are waiting in line at McDonald's and a random man approaches you and says, "Hey man, I just raped and murdered your entire family...so yeah just thought you should know." You would obviously reply,"What!!?? You are insane! That is terrible! etc etc.." To which the man could respond, "but hey, its alright for me and my morals, so who are you to tell me any different." And if we are to live in a moral relativist state, he would have a point. I could do anything I wanted to anybody and say that is ok with my morals, so I am not wrong because morals are relative.
This argument is commonly put forth by proponents of the Argument from Morality and it is false. In fact, it is absurd and borders on intellectual dishonesty. That different people consider different things right and wrong does not somehow magically imply that we cannot identify what is harmful and what is beneficial to us and others. It also does not imply that we cannot identify things that we would not like to have done to us and that we are not able to extend that idea to others. It does not imply that we cannot empathize and act on that empathy. Moral relativism does not mean that we can just all do whatever we want to and that nobody can reasonably object to it. This assertion is wildly inaccurate.
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03-19-2010 , 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted by kurto
who cares. its not a moral absolute.

Moral relativists don't say there is no absolutes. They say there are no moral absolutes.

sheesh
I've got money saying OP responds with even more capslock, or doesn't respond at all.
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03-19-2010 , 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89
For the sake of argument, I will play long with your situation theory.

Who says what is wrong and right in the situations?
Who says what I think is right and wrong in those situations? I do... who else would it be?
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03-19-2010 , 10:40 AM
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Ok, so what Hitler and Nazi Germany did is alright because that was what the "society" deemed correct.
By my moral code? Of course not. Not by most other people's either. In fact, we all pretty much agree it is wrong because it was so detrimental.

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How about societies nowadays that consider raping children, cannibalism, etc. to be ok?
They are wrong by my, and most other's moral code as well.
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03-19-2010 , 10:49 AM
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God is perfectly just in everything he does, he cannot sin as it goes against his nature. God would not ask someone to kill a family.
Fair enough. Allow me to rephrase batair's question: Hypothetically if god declared it was morally good to murder families, would you consider it morally good? This should illustrate the major problem with the Argument from Morality.
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03-19-2010 , 10:57 AM
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Who decides what rational is? Your definition of rational is different from mine, and why should I believe your definition is any better than mine?
Well wait a minute now, rationality is not subjective. It means pertaining to reason. Having a rational basis for morality does not mean 'just pick whatever the hell you want.' It means having reason as the basis for our actions. We all pretty much agree that that reason is benefit vs. harm. That which is overall beneficial is morally good and that which is overall harmful is morally bad.
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03-19-2010 , 11:16 AM
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Well wait a minute now, rationality is not subjective. It means pertaining to reason. Having a rational basis for morality does not mean 'just pick whatever the hell you want.' It means having reason as the basis for our actions. We all pretty much agree that that reason is benefit vs. harm. That which is overall beneficial is morally good and that which is overall harmful is morally bad.
its difficult to have conversations with theists when they rarely understand any of the words or concepts they try to address.

From this thread alone the OP has been confused about:
What moral relativists believe/how it works
what "rationality" is

This is like all the threads where theists describe all the things atheists believe....
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03-19-2010 , 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by efdrummer89
Many of you are arguing against my stance in invalid ways.

Firstly, moral relativism IS constructed against itself.
You mentioned this in the OP too. I look forward to seeing you demonstrate it.

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Saying that there are no moral absolutes IS AN ABSOLUTE! You can try to dance around it, but at the end of the day it is what it is.
In a sense, yes. But that really does not have anything to do with what we are talking about. And it certainly is not a moral absolute.
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03-23-2010 , 09:30 PM
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Originally Posted by dknightx
let me guess, you *know* this cause thats what the bible says, right?



sin means to go against the will of God, so no, he can't sin not because it goes against his nature, he can't sin because its a logical impossibility. You should try to learn more about your own religion before you try to defend it.



you are correct, he always commands his people to spares the young virgins. how convenient.
1. Yes, I know this because it is what the Bible says, and it is demonstrated throughout the entire Bible.

2. That is exactly what I said, I'm not entirely sure where you are getting off saying that I need to learn my own religion, as I was the one who said sinning is impossible for God because it goes against his nature in the first place.

3. Not sure where you are getting at with this either. Please explain.
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03-23-2010 , 09:40 PM
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Focusing on only one aspect of moral relativism, ie. the rape and murdering of families, is a specious way to argue that moral relativism is bologna.

First off, most rapists or murderers probably don't consider the morality of their actions when deliberating their heinous actions --- "hmm I should probably rape Sally this weekend, seeing as she's so busy during the week with work and all" --- so your argument is not really a fair one.

But also, moral relativism is obviously accurate when you look at less extreme topics such as vegetarianism, abortion, manners and etiquette, acism and statism, euthanization or pretty much anything else that get's debated in an ethics class.
I apologize if my one example of the rapist seemed to make my argument appear to be invalid. I was simply using an extreme situation to get my point across.

The point that I am trying to get across is there has to be a specific standard of what is right and wrong, a source of where those standards came from, which is God and his commandments.

I wasn't really focusing on the rapist's motives, the point was to make that in a moral relativistic world, he could say that it is right for him and you would not be able to tell him he was wrong, because he makes his own morals because morals are relative.

As far as the topics you mention in which Moral Relativism is accurate, I will address them accordingly:

Vegetarianism is not wrong.
Abortion is murder.
I will agree with you that manners and etiquette are relativistic in the sense that some people consider certain things to be polite, and others don't.

I'm assuming acism was meant to be typed as racism. God clearly directs everyone to love each other as you would love Christ, no matter what race.
And to be completely honest I am not that familiar with Statism.

Euthanization, that depends on the type of euthanization you are are referring to.
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03-23-2010 , 09:41 PM
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I get them from those who passed them down to me, social norms and so on. Same as everybody else.
Ok, so if whoever passed morals down on to me said rape and murder (as well as not so "serious" ethical issues) were alright, then that would make it okay?
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03-23-2010 , 09:45 PM
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The statement that there are no absolutes is not an absolute.



No, I wouldn't. I would stab him in the eye. Which is perfectly okay in my morality.
1. I apologize for the wording of my argument, it seems to be confusing people on the point I was trying to get across. The point I was trying to make was that saying there are no MORAL absolute IS a MORAL absolute, because it is about your MORALS.

2. To be honest, I would have to refrain myself from doing the same. But that would go against what God commands us to do.
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03-23-2010 , 10:11 PM
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That strikes me a bit like saying a female cannot be a urologist because she doesn't have a penis. It really isn't a contradiction (no pun intended), and it doesn't stand to reason.

Moral relativists do not believe there are moral absolutes. The preceding sentence is not a moral absolute, even though it's subject matter happens to be moral absolutes. There is no contradiction.



This reminds me of people who used to call into a local tv show to declare that god(s) give us morality, and if they woke up tomorrow not believing in god(s) anymore, they would immediately commence raping and killing everyone in sight. Personally, I don't want to rape or kill everyone in sight, and that is probably the biggest contributing factor to my not doing so.

Moral relativism is not a Get Out of Jail Free Card. I think your example is flawed and ironic and misses the mark. People do in fact commit rapes and murders! And people have even been known to brag about it or rub it in the faces of the victims' loved ones! These things happen, and potentially some of the people carrying out these acts think they are morally ok. And other people think they are morally not ok. But so what?

Each of us as individuals acts as we wish, based on what we personally perceive to be right and wrong. That includes creating a legal system with lawyers and judges and courts and jails. In some places, it includes death as a penalty for some crimes.

The only difference between a moral relativist and a moral absolutist is that the latter believes that someone's set of morals (read: his own personal morals; what a shock!) are true and real and woven into the fiber of the universe, whereas the moral relativist does not.

Gills are essential if you want to breath underwater, but useless on dry land. Morals, too, are relative to their surroundings, and meaningless (not to mention, useless) to rocks, stars, the speed of light, gravity, and Bermuda grass.

The only thing that even makes this an argument/discussion/debate at all, and not a crystal clear triviality (imo) is the "I believe in a powerful, magical, invisible, etc., being who cares about us and has a plan for us"-factor. Without that thought being held by one "side" of this argument, I think it very quickly and easily distills down to something as silly as: I believe Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown is some crap that humans made up; versus: No no no, I believe Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown is a universal absolute!

(And I said parenthood wouldn't change me!?)

So going back to your example, if we lived in a moral relativist state... well, I believe we already do. I think your hypothetical would play out exactly as it does in the real world. Someone did something, society frowns on it, they will lock him away in jail, or kill him for it.

And to briefly address your Hitler-related remarks... Even though it is dramatic and emotional, it doesn't matter. What Hitler did is no more or less intrinsically "absolutely" wrong than what Fred Rogers (of Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood) did. But that has virtually no bearing on the mob mentality of people; we are quite willing to judge, criticize, hold accountable, punish, etc., people for their actions as we see fit, whether or not some of us claim/admit we are doing it because our holy books tell us to, or because it is ultimately self-serving.

In fact, moral relativism to some extent informs my tolerance. I may not like what you are doing, but in general, I know my wants and beliefs are no more or less good or bad than yours, and so if I can live with you doing what you're doing, then why not let you go on your way and do as you wish? (Lest this open up a whole new can of worms, starting this whole thread again based on this paragraph -- "But what if what I want to do is take all your money?" -- this does not mean I am paralyzed into complete pacifism and inaction; I can and will act in self-defense, etc.).
As far your stance that that the sentence "Moral relativists believe there are no moral absolutes." is not a moral absolute, its obvious that it is. You are claiming that just because the subject matter is moral absolutes does not make it a moral absolute, is a major fallacy and does not make sense at all.

The belief "There are no apples." (forgive me for the poor example) is an absolute about apples because it is saying there are NO apples and it is talking about apples, so therefore it is an "apples absolute" if you will. The same applies to morals. Saying " there are no moral absolutes" is an absolute, which contradicts with itself because you are saying yourself that there are no moral absolutes, which is a moral absolute.

By the way (and this is for everybody reading this thread and participating), I am really not trying to come off as condescending or rude, but as a Christian I owe it to myself to talk about this kind of stuff and "debate" (such an ugly word) what it is that I believe, to prove the validity (if only to myself) of what I believe. So just thank you for all that are participating, and now back to the topic. (sorry for the temporary derailment)

Ok, back to the response...

In your response you said, "Each of us as individuals acts as we wish, based on what we personally perceive to be right and wrong. That includes creating a legal system with lawyers and judges and courts and jails. In some places, it includes death as a penalty for some crimes." You are dancing around the fact that these beliefs that are right and wrong had to come from somewhere. As humans we all have consciences, which is God's law written upon our heart, to know what is right and what is wrong. I do agree that courts and jails and all of that have been made, which had to come from us knowing what is right and wrong, and those standards had to come from somewhere.

I agree with you that morals do not apply to rocks and stars, as they do not have the power to make moral decisions, but I'm not sure how that helps your argument or deconstructs mine.

Refer to my paragraph above regarding the locking the man in jail and frowning upon what he did.

You will have to elaborate more on the Hitler/Mr. Rogers point, as I'm not sure I completely understand it.

In that paragraph about the argument hinging upon an invisible God existing, you are correct. But you are assuming that God doesn't exist which would make moral absolutes invalid, but the argument that God exists is a whole other topic entirely, and another thread should be made. Moral absolutes are not the only evidence of God's existence. But for now we should stay on the topic of Moral Absolutes/ Moral Relativism.

Your final paragraph seems to be simply agreeing with my point. Also I am pressed for time so perhaps I will be able to discuss that paragraph with you further at a later date.
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03-23-2010 , 10:34 PM
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You are dancing around the fact that these beliefs that are right and wrong had to come from somewhere. As humans we all have consciences, which is God's law written upon our heart, to know what is right and what is wrong.
The fact that beliefs have to come from somewhere does not necessarily entail that that "somewhere" is handed down by God. An alternative theory is that the development of a conscience favoured reproduction. As I believe I wrote above we can derive moral positions through the use of reason.

Do you really think we are all imbued with the exact same notions of right and wrong? This seems to be demonstrably false. What are we then to conclude? That God writes different ideas of right or wrong on different people's hearts? And that some of those notions are diametrically opposed? Or is it just Satan who comes in and alters God's imprint in everybody?
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