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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
Is it possible for a contract to be mutually beneficial, but one still has an advantage over the other? (I view "has an advantage" as being different from "taking advantage of.")
Sure. I won't pretend that I can tell you where the line is crossed. Its possibly both parties may even think they've gained the advantage.
But, If we're going to play WWJD I'm pretty sure his concern would be all parties being treated like a brother. I can only imagine his approach would be to counsel the negotiators to think about the other side rather then trying to gain an advantage.
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Sure. But this is taking an extreme case. There's lots of middle ground where you don't have quite the same black-and-white read on a situation. I brought up civil litigation in the other post.
Its so hard to think about this because even though I work with lawyers all the time I can't stop thinking of them all as ambulance chasers. Even in civil litigation usually one person is trying to get out of paying for something the other party thinks they're responsible for. In litigation I don't think both parties are trying to determine the 'truth' of what happened and make sure that justice is served.
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What sort of view do you take with things like clothing? I can buy a $20 pair of jeans from Walmart, or sometimes even a $5 pair of jeans from the Salvation Army. Or I can also go to <pick a high end clothing company> and pay $80 for a pair of jeans. Is that the same as being "fleeced"?
Actually, I think we are being fleeced. I'm sure you've heard the quip that advertising is trying to get people to buy things they don't need. Advertising is a horrible corrupting influence that is pretty immoral. It uses some advanced techniques to get people to buy crap... sometimes very damaging crap through manipulation. I think its very effective and I think most people are clueless to its power and influence. As to pants- look, if the high end pants have better quality and even something that makes it more valuable, then there's nothing to shake a finger at. But I would also suggest that the success of stuff like that is largely because the marketers appeal to our vanity and its our vanity that leads to that purchase (sure there are people who buy based on practical considerations but they're probably the ones buying pants at Sears.)
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You don't think that a lot of losing recreational players are just playing "for fun"? Maybe I just disagree with such a low view of poker players in general, but I don't think that this really sounds much like what I think is going on in the poker world. Yes, there are people who think they should be winners and aren't. But a lot of people play because they enjoy it.
Yes. I think that a lot are for sure. And a lot of people play with their buddies as a social game. But I'm talking about the pros and the people who play for money... their motive is different. And to be clear, I've been on that end of it. While I only played low stakes poker, I had poker tracking mining data so I could find the crazy LAG Fish with big stacks. And my motivation is simple- that person is easy prey. And I think others have commented how regulars/sharks at b&m are like this... they play nicely with each other waiting around for the fish. You have an entire table competing to take this person's money. The Fish really has no chance (I mean, they could hit the lottery but its rare)... and if the table is all regulars they'll leave. Because they're not the easy prey.
Note: This is very different then me sitting down to play with a bunch of friends. We're not targeting each other, its a social occasion. The stakes are really irrelevent... we could play for M&Ms.
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How do you think Jesus views a head fake in basketball, or the play action pass in American football?
Fine. The head fake isn't done by a professional to an amateur where the amateur loses his money when he's tricked by it.
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I don't disagree that you can create scenarios in which people are acting in immoral ways to make profit, and this within almost any industry you can imagine. But the extension of it that you're applying seems to go quite far, as you're basically trying to apply a blanket ruling on the entire industry on the basis of some being able to leverage something unfairly.
But remember that people who make their money off of poker aren't generally looking to play against their equals in a fun game of chance... they're looking for the people who are having fun to take their money.