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Originally Posted by Tapow Dayok
This seems like as good a thread as any to draw a distinction between two types of atheists. There are the trendy "isn't-it-cool-how-alternative-I-am" atheists and then there are the "this-is-what-I-happen-to-believe" atheists.
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Sometimes, I wonder if these trendy atheists are actually atheists at all or if they just like saying that they're atheist because they know it will piss off mom.
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Originally Posted by AirshipOhio
Outside of grade school, there are people who feel passionately about things who aren't doing it to impress their friends or piss off their parents. You have drawn a convenient but false dichotomy.
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Originally Posted by Tapow Dayok
No, I haven't. I never said that all people become atheists to piss off their parents. You're bending my words around worse than batair is.
You did make a "there are two types of atheists in this world..." claim, and that is a false dichotomy.
I don't think I twisted your words at all.
If anything, I think you twisted my words...
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But when people tell her merry Christmas, her reaction, her visceral, gut reaction, is to be uncomfortable, and not know what to say, or how to react. I think I've heard her say, with a smile on her face (she always smiles), "I don't celebrate Christmas, but thank you anyway."
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How can you say that everything just rolls off her back, but then she freaks out when someone says "Merry Christmas?" I wouldn't say she's a dick, but if she does in fact exists, she's got issues.
What part of what I described is freaking out? Feeling uncomfortable? Not knowing what to say? Or the part where she ends up actually saying thanks but no thanks?
What a freak out!!
Anyway, aside from the fact that you have suggested that I'm twisting your words, when I am not, and then you have (mildly) twisted my words, I disagree with you.
I see your side of the argument as being consistent with the conformist, childish "I have to fit in or I'm weird" mentality.
Whether or not it offends in you, I don't honor Christmas as a holiday, and when someone brings it up by wishing me merry christmas, I have no problem what-so-ever ignoring it, but I also have no problem engaging them for a moment and telling them I'm not religious, and whatever other pleasantry you want to throw on there to ensure that, oh no!, I don't seem like a dick.
Maybe you will feel liberated when you are old and crusty and ... ack! ... don't care what people think of you?! Won't that be great. Even if you are, dare I say it, weird! You can just be yourself, and let the chips fall where they may.