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10-27-2013 , 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by heehaww
Did they give reasons for why they'd prefer Hell? What sane person would rather suffer unimaginable torture than unimaginable happiness?
Steve00007 is pretty obviously bs-ing.
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10-27-2013 , 01:27 PM
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Did they give reasons for why they'd prefer Hell? What sane person would rather suffer unimaginable torture than unimaginable happiness?

Are you sure they didn't just mean, rather risk Hell than become Christian?
I'm not surprised at all. When your idea of a Christian is delivered to you by CNN, and consists of marginal, nominal and extremist elements on the fringe of Christendom, who all thump their Bibles, beat their wives and chew straw all day long, you would rather burn than be that, for sure.

Somehow "compassionate" has become synonymous with liberal secularism. I know exactly how this happened. It's all politics. The church, in its battle for influence, has been forced to align itself in many quarters with libertarian/conservative political elements.

I say "forced" because, though Christian intentions may align with the compassion-based intentions of the left, the left supports a huge, secular government program, and a big government not only weakens the influence the church has, but in recent times, offers an alternative psychical program.

Personally, I think Christians need to re-evaluate our associations and begin to talk about where we should stand regarding political movements.


From the Didache:

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1 But the Way of Death is this: First of all, it is wicked and full of cursing, murders, adulteries, lusts, fornications, thefts, idolatries, witchcrafts, charms, robberies, false witness, hypocrisies, a double heart, fraud, pride, malice, stubbornness, covetousness, foul speech, jealousy, impudence, haughtiness, boastfulness.

2 Persecutors of the good, haters of truth, lovers of lies, knowing not the reward of righteousness, not cleaving to the good nor to righteous judgment, spending wakeful nights not for good but for wickedness, from whom meekness and patience is far, lovers of vanity, following after reward, unmerciful to the poor, not working for him who is oppressed with toil, without knowledge of him who made them, murderers of children, corrupters of God's creatures, turning away the needy, oppressing the distressed, advocates of the rich, unjust judges of the poor, altogether sinful; may ye be delivered, my children, from all these.
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10-27-2013 , 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
Steve00007 is pretty obviously bs-ing.
I've heard it, too. But usually it's a very flippant comment. The picture in their head is the heaven of harps and boredom, and hell is "fun" because you can do what you want.
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10-27-2013 , 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
I've heard it, too. But usually it's a very always flippant comment. The picture in their head is the heaven of harps and boredom, and hell is "fun" because you can do what you want.
FYP. I'm familiar with this sort of jokey response e.g.



But this is very different from steve0007's claim. He says that "most" atheists would knowingly choose eternal torture in hell, even with his attempts to explain how bad that would be. I call bs on that claim.
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10-27-2013 , 05:12 PM
I thought if Christainty is true hell is just non existence in a trash dump outside Jerusalem. That sounds better then what those crazy angles do praising God over and over and over.... for eternity. I guess if i didnt have to do that id chose heaven but id still want an off switch since no one seems to know what its like for humans. Tough call. Non existence or eternal who knows what.
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10-27-2013 , 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
But this is very different from steve0007's claim. He says that "most" atheists would knowingly choose eternal torture in hell, even with his attempts to explain how bad that would be. I call bs on that claim.
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Originally Posted by Steve00007
I've seen many atheists (and I've also talked to some) that said that even if Christianity is true, they would rather burn in Hell for all eternity than become a Christian and go to Heaven.

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I remember once discussing this with some atheists and trying to show just how awful that sort of torment would be, but they were unimpressed by the horrible consequences and still insisted that they would choose to go to Hell.
Maybe we're reading it differently. In the first sentence, I read a flippancy in it. For example, we've had lawdude who make various arguments along the lines of "Even if heaven were real, it would be stupid." For example:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/13...oring-1365625/

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/13...awful-1156795/

A quick google search reveals links like:

http://www.atheismresource.com/2010/...f-it-were-real

http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/20...eaven-is-evil/

It's not quite explicitly claiming that they "they would rather burn in Hell for all eternity than become a Christian" but it's an explicit rejection of heaven if it were real for reasons pertaining to the nature of heaven.

The second sentence reads similarly to me. Being "unimpressed" sounds more to me like rejecting the idea that hell would be a certain way, and instead substituting a different picture in place of it.

I could easily be reading my own experiences into that.
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10-27-2013 , 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
Maybe we're reading it differently. In the first sentence, I read a flippancy in it. For example, we've had lawdude who make various arguments along the lines of "Even if heaven were real, it would be stupid." For example:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/13...oring-1365625/

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/13...awful-1156795/


A quick google search reveals links like:

http://www.atheismresource.com/2010/...f-it-were-real

http://freethoughtblogs.com/greta/20...eaven-is-evil/

It's not quite explicitly claiming that they "they would rather burn in Hell for all eternity than become a Christian" but it's an explicit rejection of heaven if it were real for reasons pertaining to the nature of heaven.

The second sentence reads similarly to me. Being "unimpressed" sounds more to me like rejecting the idea that hell would be a certain way, and instead substituting a different picture in place of it.

I could easily be reading my own experiences into that.
With respect you are just getting further and further off the subject, which is a bit odd given I've already explained the difference between your claim and steve's. Again, "Heaven sounds boring/evil" and/or "Hell might not be that bad" is not the same claim as "Hell is the worst thing imaginable but I would choose it over heaven".

Also, did you actually read those blog posts? Greta Christina's, for example, doesn't even touch on a "rejection of heaven if it were real", but is a criticism of using the promise of heaven as a tool for social control.

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10-27-2013 , 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
With respect you are just getting further and further off the subject, which is a bit odd given I've already explained the difference between your claim and steve's. Again, "Heaven sounds boring/evil" and/or "Hell might not be that bad" is not the same claim as "Hell is the worst thing imaginable but I would choose it over heaven".
As I said, I could be reading my own experiences into it. When I read it, I don't take the characterization as being intended as strictly literal. I quoted the post that I thought was being referenced (which incidentally did not include "most" or "eternal torture" as part of the description).

Here's the way those conversations play out in my mind:

Christian: But if you don't become a Christian, you'll go to hell and be burned for all eternity.
Atheist: Whatever. It's not like heaven is all that great, either.

I have serious doubts that the atheist in the conversations Steve might be referencing has truly accepted the characterization of hell as part of the conversation.

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Also, did you actually read those blog posts? Greta Christina's, for example, doesn't even touch on a "rejection of heaven if it were real", but is a criticism of using the promise of heaven as a tool for social control.
No. I spent 30 seconds searching and grabbed the first two links whose titles seemed relevant.
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10-27-2013 , 05:56 PM
It's funny seeing Norm Macdonald in that picture after what happened with him on twitter earlier this year when he admitted to reading the bible. I can't find a link, but he got in an exchange with many people regarding his belief in God. He broke the golden celebrity rule of not exchanging words with twitter followers, and many laughs were had.

Also couldn't help to notice they snuck Patton Oswalt in there. Remove him Seth Green and Harry Potter and then you've got something.
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10-27-2013 , 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Naked_Rectitude
You're making the assumption here that everyone wants to "act like atheists" which is not at all true. First you would have to define what that is to begin with, and secondly you have to realize that because someone likes to live a certain way doesn't mean everyone does. You needn't even be a Christian to agree with that statement.
I didn't make any assumptions like that.
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10-27-2013 , 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
FYP. I'm familiar with this sort of jokey response e.g.



But this is very different from steve0007's claim. He says that "most" atheists would knowingly choose eternal torture in hell, even with his attempts to explain how bad that would be. I call bs on that claim.
I did not say most atheists hold this position. I said I've seen many atheists say that. I've seen so many statements from atheists online that "many" could easily be far less than 50 percent (or it could be more obviously; there's no way I could guess what the percentage would be).

I don't think it's a position that's uncommon.
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10-27-2013 , 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
As I said, I could be reading my own experiences into it. When I read it, I don't take the characterization as being intended as strictly literal.
Seem pretty literal. Here's his direct quote:

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Originally Posted by Steve00007
I've seen many atheists (and I've also talked to some) that said that even if Christianity is true, they would rather burn in Hell for all eternity than become a Christian and go to Heaven. The fact that the consequences are significant and important changes nothing for them.

Personally, I find that position baffling, but those types of statements from atheists are pretty common. I remember once discussing this with some atheists and trying to show just how awful that sort of torment would be, but they were unimpressed by the horrible consequences and still insisted that they would choose to go to Hell.
This wasn't some throwaway non-literal sentence, but two full paragraphs of anecdote spending some time confirming exactly what he meant.

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I quoted the post that I thought was being referenced (which incidentally did not include "most" or "eternal torture" as part of the description).
Well, ok, technically he said "many" not "most" but are you seriously saying that "burn in hell for all eternity" (his exact words) isn't a direct synonym for "eternal torture" (my words)???

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No. I spent 30 seconds searching and grabbed the first two links whose titles seemed relevant.
I see.
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10-27-2013 , 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
I've heard it, too. But usually it's a very flippant comment. The picture in their head is the heaven of harps and boredom, and hell is "fun" because you can do what you want.
That's the response I usually read on this forum. But another response I've seen around the internet is choosing Hell is the right thing to do because the atheist thinks God is so horrifying. When people hold that position, it's hard to get them to admit that choosing Heaven would be the better choice. They will argue that they are doing the right thing when they reject God.

Edit: These people often make other claims like "Heaven would be Hell" and they might also say that they can't fool God anyway, so they would go to Hell.
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10-27-2013 , 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
Seem pretty literal. Here's his direct quote:



This wasn't some throwaway non-literal sentence, but two full paragraphs of anecdote spending some time confirming exactly what he meant.



Well, ok, technically he said "many" not "most" but are you seriously saying that "burn in hell for all eternity" (his exact words) isn't a direct synonym for "eternal torture" (my words)???



I see.
My experiences are different from Aaron's. And yes, I'm talking about Hell with fire and torture for all eternity. I actually wasn't expecting people to be surprised with what I said.

Edit: Of course, there are many atheists that would also pick Heaven because they would feel like there is a gun to their heads, but that point is so obvious that I didn't think it was worth mentioning.
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10-27-2013 , 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve00007
they might also say that they can't fool God anyway, so they would go to Hell.
They are wrong but for a different reason. They wont get a choice.

If Yahweh is real. And i think the God of the bible is an ass. Ill be going to hell since God knows i dont care for him. I wont get a choice to pick the penthouse over the core of the earth.

Personally this is what i think they mean. Because its what i mean when i say it. But yeah..
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10-27-2013 , 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve00007
I did not say most atheists hold this position. I said I've seen many atheists say that. I've seen so many statements from atheists online that "many" could easily be far less than 50 percent (or it could be more obviously; there's no way I could guess what the percentage would be).

I don't think it's a position that's uncommon.
Fair enough, you said "many" not "most" (I think I conflated that post with your response to heehaw).

But as someone who is active in many atheist communities and lives in a pretty secular country (I know virtually no IRL Christians) I've never heard anyone say they would choose a Dante-style hell over heaven.
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10-27-2013 , 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted by heehaww
Did they give reasons for why they'd prefer Hell? What sane person would rather suffer unimaginable torture than unimaginable happiness?
One atheist told me that it would be like worshipping Satan for all eternity, and I think those people would reject the idea that Heaven would be full of unimaginable happiness.

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Are you sure they didn't just mean, rather risk Hell than become Christian?
Yes, I'm definitely sure they didn't mean that.


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I was also happier around Christmas time when I still believed in Santa Claus.
Sure, as a child you were happier. But as an adult, I don't think that believing in Santa Claus will make you as happy as the person that doesn't believe in Santa. You certainly wouldn't be as happy as the child that believes in Santa.

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Changing my religious views wasn't a choice. Thinking about philosophy was, and doing that led to a change in my beliefs. Once those beliefs changed, I couldn't pretend (to myself) to believe in Christianity any better than I could pretend to believe in Santa.
I hear those claims a lot but I don't think it's nearly that simple. There actually are a lot of people that delude themselves into believing things that are false, even when the evidence is against them. One example that we can both agree on is the religious person that agrees with many of the claims made by atheists, and decides that they are going to believe anyway because of their blind faith. Richard Dawkins spent some time criticizing those types of people in his book.

I've also seen many irrational comments from sports fans like "I think my team is going to win because I'm going to go with my heart instead of my head."

My point is this: When people change their views or hold on to their views, there is more to it than just looking at the evidence. A lot of people look at the same evidence and come to very different conclusions on a lot of issues.
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10-27-2013 , 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve00007
That's the response I usually read on this forum. But another response I've seen around the internet is choosing Hell is the right thing to do because the atheist thinks God is so horrifying. When people hold that position, it's hard to get them to admit that choosing Heaven would be the better choice. They will argue that they are doing the right thing when they reject God.
You originally said:

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they would rather burn in Hell for all eternity than become a Christian and go to Heaven
Now it seems you are clarifying that they believe that rejecting the Christian god is morally correct, despite the consequences for their self-interest. If this is true, then your appeal to the negative consequences for their self-interest comes off as pretty morally repugnant tbh. Essentially, it seems like you are saying to them that self-interest should trump morality.
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10-27-2013 , 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
Fair enough, you said "many" not "most" (I think I conflated that post with your response to heehaw).

But as someone who is active in many atheist communities and lives in a pretty secular country (I know virtually no IRL Christians) I've never heard anyone say they would choose a Dante-style hell over heaven.
Here's one link where a few atheists say they would pick Hell:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/in...5135520AAXUNuB

Here are a couple of responses:

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I would never worship god or Jesus just because I think I'm getting something out of it in the end. I'm an atheist, and it's not really a choice. I just don't believe in god and I can't pretend to. So I guess I'd rather burn in hell.

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Even if god and afterlife were real, I wouldn't worship anyone. That is so de-humanizing.
Geez - I figured that out as a small child. I guess I just had a sense of self-worth at a very early age.

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I would rather burn in Hell. I have no respect for god and would never worship him ever again.
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10-27-2013 , 07:47 PM
Yahoo Answers? Really? So your sample is 13 yr olds?

I just clicked on the link for their "Religion and Spirituality" section and here are some of the questions on the first page:
  • Evolutinists monkeys are having babies so how come people don't have babies like monkeys?
  • If Evolution is true won't there be people in the Zoo? well?
  • Would it have been simpler to put many gods on one table with camera crew and let them debate?
  • Why does God make new people come from sex?
  • Why did God communicate with a dice type communication called Urim and Thumim?
  • Why do Christians think George Washington wasn't real?

Given that you acknowledge that RGT atheists (mostly 20-30 yr old graduates) don't hold this opinion and your go-to example is from a forum populated mostly by children, maybe you should consider better sources for understanding contemporary atheist thought.
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10-27-2013 , 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
You originally said:



Now it seems you are clarifying that they believe that rejecting the Christian god is morally correct, despite the consequences for their self-interest. If this is true, then your appeal to the negative consequences for their self-interest comes off as pretty morally repugnant tbh. Essentially, it seems like you are saying to them that self-interest should trump morality.
Yes, that is their position.

If they are right that God is so horrifying, then to me both choices are immoral and it's a choice between the lesser of two evils. I constantly hear claims like "Only a monster would choose to torture people for an eternity," so it seems inconsistent to me for someone to say that choosing Hell is suddenly a good thing in this case, unless they had extremely compelling reasons to do it. Is there something wrong with that thinking?
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10-27-2013 , 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
Yahoo Answers? Really? So your sample is 13 yr olds?

I just clicked on the link for their "Religion and Spirituality" section and here are some of the questions on the first page:
  • Evolutinists monkeys are having babies so how come people don't have babies like monkeys?
  • If Evolution is true won't there be people in the Zoo? well?
  • Would it have been simpler to put many gods on one table with camera crew and let them debate?
  • Why does God make new people come from sex?
  • Why did God communicate with a dice type communication called Urim and Thumim?
  • Why do Christians think George Washington wasn't real?

Given that you acknowledge that RGT atheists (mostly 20-30 yr old graduates) don't hold this opinion and your go-to example is from a forum populated mostly by children, maybe you should consider better sources for understanding contemporary atheist thought.
All of this is irrelevant. Look at the quotes I showed and they don't look like quotes from little kids. And that was just something that popped up on the first page when I looked. The fact that people ask dumb questions on that site is irrelevant to how people would respond to this question. You're using fallacious reasoning when you imply that because the site is bad, then all the responses on the site are suddenly not worth reading.

I once started a thread on theologyweb about 4 years ago in the apologetics 301 section asking about this. The site seems to be down right now. If someone could somehow provide a link I'd like to search for it.

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Given that you acknowledge that RGT atheists (mostly 20-30 yr old graduates) don't hold this opinion and your go-to example is from a forum populated mostly by children, maybe you should consider better sources for understanding contemporary atheist thought.
I think you're really overreacting over something that isn't even a big deal.

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10-27-2013 , 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve00007
Yes, that is their position.

If they are right that God is so horrifying, then to me both choices are immoral and it's a choice between the lesser of two evils. I constantly hear claims like "Only a monster would choose to torture people for an eternity," so it seems inconsistent to me for someone to say that choosing Hell is suddenly a good thing in this case, unless they had extremely compelling reasons to do it. Is there something wrong with that thinking?
The compelling reason to choose hell, in this argument, is morality.

P1) One ought to do what is morally required, regardless of self interest.
P2) It is morally required to oppose those who torture others
P3) God tortures others
C1) One ought to oppose God.

Leaving aside any is-ought concern the conclusion follows from the premises, so which premise do you deny? Presumably P1?
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10-27-2013 , 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
Yahoo Answers? Really? So your sample is 13 yr olds?

I just clicked on the link for their "Religion and Spirituality" section and here are some of the questions on the first page:
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I clicked on the same link and while there are some really stupid questions (and some I've even seen asked by adults), there are questions that aren't nearly as bad, and some of the questions look like questions I've seen on this site.
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10-27-2013 , 08:13 PM
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All of this is irrelevant. Look at the quotes I showed and they don't look like quotes from little kids.
Oh, really.

The first quote you cited is by someone who also responded like this to the question "Lil wayne song title shorty wanna thug?"

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im prettttty sure yr talking about Lollipop ?
The second person you quoted has his/her profile on private.

The third person ("GothGirl13) you quoted is a contributor to the following questions:
  • Problem at new school?
  • Why didn't he text me back.?
  • Im gonna be the new kid?
  • Is the tooth fariy real?
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And that was just something that popped up on the first page when I looked. The fact that people ask dumb questions on that site is irrelevant to how people would respond to this question. You're using fallacious reasoning when you imply that because the site it bad, then all the responses on the site are suddenly not worth reading.
It might be fallacious if I had presented a deductive argument, but as I haven't you are just throwing around a term you don't seem to understand.

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I think you're really overreacting over something that isn't even a big deal.
We get a lot of trolls in here, I've not seen you before, and you are making some oddball claims and backing them up with terrible sources.

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