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07-11-2012 , 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
I often don't "get" tangible things from prayer. No voices; no visions. I sometimes "get" intangibles. The process of taking time to slow down and choose to actively pursue things that I value (such as expressing concern for issues that my friends may be facing), giving space for the opportunity to listen. Then there are semi-tangibles in the time after the prayer (renewed focus, particular insights or whatever as I begin back into other things).

For example, I had a student come to my office yesterday who is trying to transfer and was wondering about her placement. She's concerned because she's not that good at math and doesn't want to fail, but the level of stress she was exhibiting seemed larger than just this. It's not like I stopped the conversation with her in order to pray about it, but as I feel compassion for her I become more "open" to "hear" what she's saying and the "prayer" for her begins. (Again, "semi-tangible" -- it's nebulous, but it's a part of the experience of the conversation.)

I won't go into the details of the conversation (nothing in particular happened except for me walking her through some thoughts and helping her to focus). But afterwards, I then continued in a short time of prayer as I decompressed the conversation, seeking for any bits of wisdom to be gained from the experience, and praying for her as she continues down this formal process of tranferring and in her personal life as she's apparently bogged down with some emotional hurts from her past.

I think it's somewhat erroneous to treat "prayer" as a particularly discrete act. While we have discrete forms of prayer, it's not as if the extent of the effects of prayer are restricted to those discrete times. Even if you make a prayer of supplication (ask for stuff), there's not a sense in which you expect the stuff to happen/appear/whatever before you close the prayer time.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems prayer is almost identical (if not completely identical) to some combination of introspection, meditation and empathy. I'm not seeing where God comes in.

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You may want to go to the library and pick up a book called "The Celebration of Discipline" by Richard Foster and read the chapter on prayer. It might stand as at least a starting framework for discussing prayer.
I'll give it a look, thanks.
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07-11-2012 , 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by asdfasdf32
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems prayer is almost identical (if not completely identical) to some combination of introspection, meditation and empathy. I'm not seeing where God comes in.
How are you expecting God to come in?

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I'll give it a look, thanks.
I should note that I don't 100% agree with that chapter. But I think it serves as a starting point. Although I think it's implicitly obvious, don't expect the book to read like a "proof" of anything about prayer.
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07-11-2012 , 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
For example, I had a student come to my office yesterday who is trying to transfer and was wondering about her placement. She's concerned because she's not that good at math and doesn't want to fail, but the level of stress she was exhibiting seemed larger than just this. It's not like I stopped the conversation with her in order to pray about it, but as I feel compassion for her I become more "open" to "hear" what she's saying and the "prayer" for her begins. (Again, "semi-tangible" -- it's nebulous, but it's a part of the experience of the conversation.)

I won't go into the details of the conversation (nothing in particular happened except for me walking her through some thoughts and helping her to focus). But afterwards, I then continued in a short time of prayer as I decompressed the conversation, seeking for any bits of wisdom to be gained from the experience, and praying for her as she continues down this formal process of tranferring and in her personal life as she's apparently bogged down with some emotional hurts from her past.
I don't see what in this story points in any way to a god. Experiencing a profound sense of compassion, contemplation over a moving conversation, all of these things are common experiences among many people.
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07-11-2012 , 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
How are you expecting God to come in?
You tell me?
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07-11-2012 , 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
When you talk to a friend, you are talking to both the conceptualization of your friend that exists in your mind (this provides the framework for how you decide to interact) and you're talking to your actual friend.

In the Christian view of God, God simply is God. It doesn't matter if you think he's Allah, or the universe, or whatever. However that point of contact is made, that's where things begin. This does not mean that I think that Allah is the same as God, or that I think pantheism is true. It just means that when you start a relationship, you usually don't really know the other. It starts somewhere, then over time that understanding is increased, and preconceived notions and ideas give way to the reality of the other.



I'm not a universalist, so I recognize that many will not be saved. But I want to go back through those basic points for you again, and flesh it out a bit.

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Most people are willing to assent to the idea that there is some type of "goodness" out there in the universe.



And that there's a lot of "badness" that people do. And most people recognize that they do a lot of "bad" despite their recognition that it's better to do "good" (and their efforts to do so).



And this is where paths diverge. What to do with this situation? Since we recognize brokenness exists, can it be fixed? Is it even worth fixing? Where do we begin?
I am still confused on your view. If I believe that Allah is perfect, that I am insufficient, and it is only through Allah that I can ascend, is that the type of situtation where you think the person will suffer an eternity in hell or not? Since you have been nitty with definitions, I mean specifically the standard interpretations of Allah as described by the Koran which includes things like "jesus is not the son of god". This person may well have a sense of goodness and badness which seem to be universalist concepts but you refered explicitly to the capital G god which is not universalist.

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The way you've been approaching the conversation, I think you're taking a very narrow approach. And I think a lot of it is because you're starting with a very narrow conception of who God is and how he might operate.
Quite the opposite. I have no rigid conception of God that I am married to. You said this about me before and it was no more true then, I am starting to think this might be a standard assumption you put on atheists. I care about whatever conception of God YOU maintain, and your reasons for it. I will sometimes guess at the properties of this God that I think a religious person is likely to hold, and argue from that assumption, but if they don't hold it I could hardly care less and will adopt whatever view they have as the subject of discussion. Some people have incredibly broad concepts of god, others very narrow ones, and I am just as happy to work with either. Different sets of arguments apply to the different dsefinitions, however.
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07-11-2012 , 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by asdfasdf32
You tell me?
If you spend time with a friend, does that person have to give you something for you to believe that you spent time with him/her?
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07-11-2012 , 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
If you spend time with a friend, does that person have to give you something for you to believe that you spent time with him/her?
Yes, evidence that she was there.
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07-11-2012 , 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
I am still confused on your view. If I believe that Allah is perfect, that I am insufficient, and it is only through Allah that I can ascend, is that the type of situtation where you think the person will suffer an eternity in hell or not? Since you have been nitty with definitions, I mean specifically the standard interpretations of Allah as described by the Koran which includes things like "jesus is not the son of god".
The Koran doesn't really teach these things, at least in the same terms that I'm using. So I don't really know. Do you believe in square circles?

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Quite the opposite. I have no rigid conception of God that I am married to.
Then perhaps the absence of your definition is causing effects like narrowness of definition. I would point out that you did precisely the following above:

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If you think that it's merely a matter of switching out the letters G-o-d with A-l-l-a-h, then I don't think you're actually using the words in a meaningful way.
How is it that you mean you believe in "Allah" as described in the Koran, but then ascribe meaning that not congruous with "Allah" as described in the Koran?
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07-11-2012 , 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
Yes, evidence that she was there.
What would count as "evidence"?

Edit: Let's change this to a phone conversation just to avoid some silliness. I'm not interested in picking up skin cells off the couch and things like that.
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07-11-2012 , 04:19 PM
Her voice on the phone would count as evidence
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07-11-2012 , 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
The Koran doesn't really teach these things, at least in the same terms that I'm using. So I don't really know. Do you believe in square circles?



Then perhaps the absence of your definition is causing effects like narrowness of definition. I would point out that you did precisely the following above:



How is it that you mean you believe in "Allah" as described in the Koran, but then ascribe meaning that not congruous with "Allah" as described in the Koran?
Perhaps my Islamic theology is severely lacking, but I thought that the Koran DOES find that Allah is perfect and man is not. I know there are obvious differences like the lack of original sin, emphasis on ascendency through works not faith and the like. But again, I am not trying to force any definitions or meanings from your statements on you, I am trying to ascertain from you whether you think most Muslims are suffering an eternity in hell or not.

Can you explain precisely how I am having a narrow definition here? I had not even realized I had offered any definitions, merely trying to figure out what YOU mean.
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07-11-2012 , 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by zumby
Her voice on the phone would count as evidence
So when the call is over, there's no evidence that remains of the interaction?
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07-11-2012 , 04:34 PM
Something detectable by our senses counts as evidence. If you hear someone on the phone, or see them in front of you, this is evidence. If you want to use this for an analogy for god, you have to say what the sense was that you used to detect this god.
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07-11-2012 , 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
So when the call is over, there's no evidence that remains of the interaction?
Memories count as evidence to the individual who has them.
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07-11-2012 , 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Perhaps my Islamic theology is severely lacking, but I thought that the Koran DOES find that Allah is perfect and man is not.
Let's stop here. Are you ONLY ascribing "Allah" with the property of perfection?

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Can you explain precisely how I am having a narrow definition here? I had not even realized I had offered any definitions, merely trying to figure out what YOU mean.
You may not have made any explicit definitions, but there are lots of implicit definitions in how you are using the names. You are simultaneously taking a narrow conception (Allah of the Koran is not the God of the Bible) while holding it to be an extremely broad conception (Allah fits the same general description of God).

It makes for a very confusing conversation.
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07-11-2012 , 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Memories count as evidence to the individual who has them.
So if I remember a time of prayer, what are you looking for me to recount to you that would somehow stand as "evidence"?
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07-11-2012 , 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by uke_master
Something detectable by our senses counts as evidence. If you hear someone on the phone, or see them in front of you, this is evidence. If you want to use this for an analogy for god, you have to say what the sense was that you used to detect this god.
This is an anthropological description of how some Christian communities do it.

http://www.npr.org/2012/03/26/149394...ical-community

My personal experience is a little less oriented around manifesting actual voices/etc. Not all thoughts happen in words, which is part of why I'm struggling to determine what it is you want from me.
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07-11-2012 , 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
You may not have made any explicit definitions, but there are lots of implicit definitions in how you are using the names. You are simultaneously taking a narrow conception (Allah of the Koran is not the God of the Bible) while holding it to be an extremely broad conception (Allah fits the same general description of God)..
Exactly, am trying to figure out which of these you are talking about. As I understand the canonical understandings of Yahweh and Allah as given respectively by their books, there are some properties that are the same or similar and others which are different. You gave a list of things which meant people went to heaven. If you got rid of the explicit capital G God reference, the conditions of perfectness and the like were shared. This is why I asked you "what God?" what I am trying to get at is whether you are using a sufficiently broad conception that it includes most Muslims, or a sufficiently narrow conception that it excludes them.

Straight up for the third time: do you think most Muslims go to hell for eternity?
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07-11-2012 , 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
So when the call is over, there's no evidence that remains of the interaction?
Apart from memories / phone logs, no. Also, don't confuse evidence with proof.
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07-11-2012 , 04:56 PM
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So if I remember a time of prayer, what are you looking for me to recount to you that would somehow stand as "evidence"?
I want you to recount whatever part of it you think is relevant to indicate god. I don't even care about evidence per say here, I am always curious about peoples experiences.

So for example, if you had seen some images or heard some sounds in your head then you could recal that experience. In that case I could understand the sense that you observed something which you are attributing to God.
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07-11-2012 , 06:50 PM
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Apart from memories / phone logs, no.
Then I have no idea what you're asking me to show you.
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07-11-2012 , 07:00 PM
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Exactly, am trying to figure out which of these you are talking about.
By exactly, you mean you recognize that you're using the words precisely the way I'm saying you're using them? Do you understand why I don't know what you're asking me?

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As I understand the canonical understandings of Yahweh and Allah as given respectively by their books, there are some properties that are the same or similar and others which are different. You gave a list of things which meant people went to heaven. If you got rid of the explicit capital G God reference, the conditions of perfectness and the like were shared.
But this shows that you don't understand Islam because you missed on one of the basic features that I put forth:

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* You need to assent that human effort is insufficient.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jannah

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Muslims believe that the treatment of the individual in the life of the grave will be according to his or her deeds in the worldly life.
Now, I gave very brief statements to avoid too many technical issues. But essentially, Islam is a works-based faith (and as best as I can tell, not even in the Catholic wishy-washy-works-based way). The statement above does not encapsulate the idea that human effort is insufficient.

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This is why I asked you "what God?" what I am trying to get at is whether you are using a sufficiently broad conception that it includes most Muslims, or a sufficiently narrow conception that it excludes them.
You're simply not using "Muslim" in a meaningful way.

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Straight up for the third time: do you think most Muslims go to hell for eternity?
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...&postcount=109
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07-11-2012 , 07:02 PM
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I want you to recount whatever part of it you think is relevant to indicate god.
That's not how it works. There's no isolated piece (insofar as my experience goes) that I point to with any sort of regularity and say "*THIS* is God" and the rest is not. The prayer itself is a reflection of the encounter with God. And I've told you basically how the prayer time works.

The link I provided is a description of people who *DO* think in that sort of way. You can read the book if that's all you're looking for. But looking for me to provide you with something I don't have isn't going to be productive.
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07-11-2012 , 07:49 PM
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By exactly, you mean you recognize that you're using the words precisely the way I'm saying you're using them? Do you understand why I don't know what you're asking me?
I was agreeing with your framing that one could define God in either a broad or a narrow sense. I was trying to figure out which you were using...I certainly don't care or prefer for one or the other.

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But this shows that you don't understand Islam because you missed on one of the basic features that I put forth:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jannah

Now, I gave very brief statements to avoid too many technical issues. But essentially, Islam is a works-based faith (and as best as I can tell, not even in the Catholic wishy-washy-works-based way). The statement above does not encapsulate the idea that human effort is insufficient.
Ah see wasn't that easy? I had already mentioned earlier that Islam was ascendency by works not faith to see whether that was the key difference or not. "You need to assent that human effort is insufficient" is very vague (insufficient at what? being perfect? apparently you mean insufficient as a condition of ascending to heaven). If what you meant was that as a condition for ascendency to heaven it could not be by works then sure that is one possible interpretation of the vague statement.

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...&postcount=109[/QUOTE]In that post, you reference people who do not believe in salvation through Jesus explicitly. You then went on to give a more universalist definition that sort of appeared like it might not require jesus. But it was vague. When we press you on it a bit, conditions like "believe human effort is insufficient" really means "cannot have a belief in works based ascendencies to heaven".

On a side note, how morally bankrupt is a system where the conditions to spend an eternity burning in hell or not depends on whether you believe certain premises? Thank goodness there appears to be little reason to believe it is true. But aesthetics is beside the point here...

I will note that post 144 didn't get a response. I don't know if that was deliberate. But it seemed to be a reasonable culmination of the previous tangent.
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07-11-2012 , 07:59 PM
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That's not how it works. There's no isolated piece (insofar as my experience goes) that I point to with any sort of regularity and say "*THIS* is God" and the rest is not. The prayer itself is a reflection of the encounter with God. And I've told you basically how the prayer time works.
What I don't understand is where (in, say, your description of your interaction with your student) you found reason to talk of it in reference to god. Everything your wrote seemed like it could be written exactly the same except without any mention of god or reason to think god had anything to do with that experience...with the exception of the word "prayer" which to be honest I still don't quite understand what you mean by this.

Now you have rejected the idea that there is some isolated component of your experience that you associate with God. Normally I think of experiences as being reducible to consistuent parts but presumably you disagree. So if not a "part", then where does God come in? Is it a sort of holistic thing? I feel like I am running into a linguistic wall for I can't say "what part does god come in" if it isn't a "part" but I don't know how else to say it in English

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Originally Posted by Aaron W.
The link I provided is a description of people who *DO* think in that sort of way. You can read the book if that's all you're looking for. But looking for me to provide you with something I don't have isn't going to be productive.
At the risk of repeating myself too often, I will remind you that I am not looking for any specific thing from you whether it is a specific definition or specific type of evidence. Other people have different justifications for their different gods and when I talk to them I will talk about that. What I want from you will always be YOUR justifications. If they are different from other people's justifications or different than how I might expect them to be that is perfectly fine.
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