i would like to take a stab, as i once upon a time dabbled in the 'occult'.
perhaps these words will be of some assistance.
your libido can only distract if it is allowed to.
one must rather, embrace that potent sexual energy, own it..and transmute the perceived blockage of that particular energy center, so that its potential may be realized by and through your other energy centers, so that they may better function as a whole.
do not entertain the notion that your perceived "sexual imbalance" is out of your control, or that it is external to what you are, or that it is a hindrance.
on the contrary, this is merely another catalyst that will propel you through to a new dimension of understanding..through embracing that instinctual energy center.
objectively, you only sense the act of physically releasing this energy as weakening, because of the perception that the
need for release is weakening.
it is not, it is natural.
when one is in conscious union with that which is truly You, one will know when the flesh suit needs to RELEASE, and one need not engage in excessive flogging of the mule.
since one knows what and when is necessary..one can
rest in that Knowing, and thus feel no "weakening" if one is led to tug the tiger.