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Originally Posted by __harmless
. The Bible itself recommends staying single for lack of responsibilities, yet most of the church encourages getting married and taking on responsibility. Growing up heavily in Christian culture, I can attest that the pressure to get married and avoid pre-marital sex is very real. In many Christian circles, single adults are marginalized.
I can definitely confirm at least that much.
Growing up in church, it's rarely said out loud, but the general strategy for keeping people away from premarital sex is generally to get them married. It was also very common in the Christian circles I was in for people get married in an attempt to absolve themselves of the sin of premarital sex (as in, we're having premarital sex, but if we get married, then it's not so bad).
There was also a pretty high incidence of: Couple gets engaged, couple gets married really quickly, couple gets pregnant on the honeymoon, couple gives birth to a premature baby who is eight pounds and totally healthy - wink wink, nudge nudge.