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Originally Posted by atsupak
This post was never about the gesture, it was about the assumption by religious people that others who do good must also be religious. I've obviously given off the wrong impression since this was posted out of frustration. It's not the best objective example of what I was trying to say in itself. However, in my daily life in the conservative Christian town I live in, this is just a small example of the mentality associating good with God.
I doubt, when the cashier responded to you, they were really thinking "well, all good must come from god, so this person doing good must be religious, and so I had better respond with a god bless you". They were probably just responding with the socially acceptable responses, on automatic, so to speak. As an example of intolerance of atheists, or conservative christian mentality, its not a very good one. Also, as MB points out, how else are they going to respond, except from what they believe?
Its your thinking that is making this a bigger problem than it is.
Maybe it was an opportunity for you to help her see a wider perspective, by saying "thank you, but Im an atheist" and so challenging her beliefs that only christians can do good?
Maybe give some other examples of what is causing you frustration?