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Originally Posted by Splendour
I didn't miss any fundamentals.
The only fundamental I mentioned was reincarnation. The rest was Lamaism.
I used to be a fundementalist christian, trust me, bearing false witness is a no no.
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Originally Posted by batair
I dont know much about Buddhism. So if no Buddhist call for eliminating anger altogether, then i wouldn't have a problem with that aspect. What about the limiting anger though. Should i limit my anger over a continuing injustices. Or is ok to have anger about that injustices every time i think about it? And how about the limiting of sexual attraction? I thought Buddhist call for limiting it.
Either way though. If i knew more about Buddhism i would almost guarantee there are aspects of it which i would disagree with.
Not all anger is negative. Not all lust is negative. If lust is inappropriate then it is negative, if it is for your wife...obviously not. If you can't focus at work because you are fantasizing about a co-worker, the buddhist would recommend you focus on the object of lust not as a person but as the collective parts. When you focus on the internal organs of the digestive system and how they work in that person, for example, for many that can take you out of the overwhelming emotion you could reasonably have for someone.
If you are angry over continuing injustice, that does not mean you just sit down and rage over it. The bottom line is that you do what you can do to stop or attenuate the injustice. You do what you can do and don't worry about it. Being angry does not often help you accomplish goals that are anything more than purely physical in nature. Still, I am not so sure you can't do just as well with determination that is not based on anger. If you can't change the injustice then it is a profound waste to be angry as it only punishes you for no reason. So, it is really more about pragmatism and being as effective as you can and not becoming your own enemy. If you have the idea that doing it properly is to be a blissed out powerbottom, that isn't accurate at all. : ) Dwelling on injustice in a ruminating kind of way not only is counterproductive it can literally change the anatomy and physiology of your brain in a negative way since you are starving the left side prefrontal cortex and vastly overusing the amygdala. Modern neurology has done much to flesh out what is real and what is imagined. Radiology these days is no joke and it is just getting better...these are exciting times!
I have certainly heard things that buddhist people said that I disagreed with. I heard a buddhist lady yammer about the problem with kids these days is they don't do what their parents say. Obviously there is a range of parental quality, and not all kids win it. I am not sure that is a failing of buddhist thought, but it was certainly a foolish thing to make a blanket statement like that. However, I think you would be well served to learn more as it is just a helpful way to live to be more loving and kind and not blown around by the winds of destructive emotions. Really all it comes down to is focusing on improving yourself in this life and worrying about some afterlife when and if that happens. For now I have too much work to do being more like I would like to be to worry about it. Mostly I think it is more likely that fairy tales are fairy tales, but there is wisdom I have learned in every religion I have studied.