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Originally Posted by Deorum
This doesn't seem to make any sense. From the page:
But isn't avoiding pregnancy what makes contraception a sin in the first place? Either it's God's plan for you to have children or it isn't. If it isn't, then no harm no foul. If it is, then there doesn't seem to be any practical difference between not having sex while your wife can get pregnant and having it but preventing her from getting pregnant. Either way you defy God's plan by not having children. In fact, abstaining seems worse since having sex with contraception doesn't eliminate the possibility of getting pregnant while abstaining certainly does.
The Church identifies two primary purposes of the marital conjugal act:
1) Unitive: Helping a couple grow closer to each other, a corrolary to Christ's love of the Church
2) Procreative: The couple is open to the gift of children.
NFP satisfies both of these conditions. The expectation of couples practicing NFP is that, while they may try to avoid pregnancy, they remain open to life. The Church will never dictate rules to a married couple as to where and when they have sex. It should also be obvious that not every conjugal act results in a pregnancy. So if a couple uses the human body's natural cycles to avoid pregnancy, no sin is committed. Similarly, a post-menopausal or otherwise infertile married couple can continue to have sex since the fundamental openness to life remains.