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Originally Posted by HowardGrind
Wow this is insane, figuratively and literally. Thanks gus,
Also I heard that mormons wont allow blood transfusions, is this true?
Nope 7th Day Adventists, I believe. So hard to keep up with all the sects.
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I guess to be fair, seeing I asked about the absurdities, can you tell me the good points or being a mormon? If there are any.
Sure. Huge emphasis on the family. Every Monday is known as 'Family Home Evening" or FHE for short. Basically one night dedicated to doing something as a family. Could be anything from playing games, working on the house, etc. When I was little my parents were very poor and 1 Monday a month for FHE we would go to Dairy Queen and get chocolate dipped ice cream cones ( my parents couldn't afford anything else more) Highlight of my month as a kid.
As a "young single adult" read 18 to married every Monday is a night for an event of all the single people to get together and play games ( basically every wholesome game imaginable), do service work, etc. It is an easy way to meet 10,20, 30 people in a night. If you move into a new community that has this it is an easy way to build the social network of likeminded people, if you are Mormon.
Emphasis on personal health. The Mormons believe in what is called " The Word of Wisdom" basically a dietary guide set down by God. The precepts are pretty general eat mostly grains, meat sparingly, stay in shape. The specifics are no alcohol, no tobacco, no tea, and no caffeine. I'm sure plenty of people would view this as a negative, but it will keep you healthy if that is what you want.
Although the no alcohol and tea and caffeine thing would be a bummer, Mormons usually have an emphasis on dancing and education. Once a month there usually is a dance, one for 14-18 year olds ( high school) and other for singles and older singles. Depending on the location they can be pretty small or huge sometimes renting out clubs to hold them. Along with that comes an emphasis on dating ( not sex though ). Usually kids from 16 on up are encouraged to date early and date often ( again with not sex thing, bummer I know). Dating multiple people was usually considered fine as well as long as it wasn't serious ( insert latent polygamy joke).
Some of the practical benefits is that there is a built in social network. As most Mormon churches have the same schedules and activities such as Family Home Evening, seminary ( bible studies) on Wednesdays, Dances once a month ( per area, metropolitan areas will have the different suburbs rotate dances per week so usually there is one every weekend) and the general cohesion of the activities means you can go practically anywhere there are members and make 20+ friends within a week and meet hundreds in a month.
The downside to this as mentioned in this thread somewhere else is that if you leave the church you commit social suicide. Not in the sense of most members are told to shun you ( they aren't unless you invite them to drink or do other " illecite activities" ) but that if you are in a majority Mormon town you lose a lot of the time needed to keep relationships going. Your Mormon buddies will be busy Monday night, Wednesday night, Friday night, and usually the other nights as well hanging out with Mormon friends.