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Originally Posted by nek777
I don't follow your first paragraph.
Self is suffering but I am point out there is no implication that suffering must always exists just because self is suffering. People generally say suffering must always be because of course (what they think is of course) self must always be. But thats not true that self in this sense must always be.
Furthermore to suggest such a thing is possibly to succumb to the conditioning that we all must admit, that we are to remain ignorant to the suffering of the rest of the world. Or perhaps we dont' admit that nationality, democracys, our school systems, birth/school/job/family/taxes/death etc condition in us an ignorance towards others.
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Why do I have to agree with you before you explain your logic?
You have to uncondition the belief that suggests there is no validity to what I am going to say. In others you know from logic we are taught in school that you can't explain something to someone when they have already made up there mind about.
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Your third paragraph is condescending and you are jumping to conclusions. Please don't put words in my mouth.
I have not put words in your mouth, nor are my words condescending. However if you take them a certain way they will sound that way, but that is your doing.
You asked me and I told you the direct honest answer. Your conditioning will not allow me to explain yet, so we must enquire into this piece that I claim is conditioned and you claim is not.
We often believe we can judge a person on whether they are condescending or not. But when we do this to someone who doesn't' believe in higher or lower, then its clearly our own insecurities that bring this type of analysis about.
Also make sure, as a fail safe, that when you ask someone an important question, that you don't automatically feel offended just because it questions the root of your belief.
I'm positive that you feel that is not a justifiable reaction to a spiritual discussion. To be blunt and Christian like-Buddha would never be offended or feel condescended if someone said his religion or belief or non belief was wrong.
There should be no emotion in this.
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I never said I was right, its ii usr my understanding of what I have read, listened to and experienced. Do you accept the possibility that you could be off in your understanding?
There is no possibilty I am wrong, and you will know this once your first understand what I am suggesting.
In other words I have seen this understanding.
You have to allow it to be possible I understand something that you aren't seeing clearly
Then I will show it to you
Then I will ask you if its possible I'm wrong.
Don't just say 'Oh you think your right and not wrong so therefore you are just arrogant' find out what I am saying then point out the illogics.