You see, this is how it starts. Then he’ll say no Saturdays because he meets friends, and not Sundays because he has church. Also, not weekdays evenings because he likes to get an early night.
Lovely friends know which boundaries are pushable, and which are leave well alone(able). Lovely friends know going from 1 to 1000 isn’t pushing boundaries, it’s being unreasonable. Lovely friends don’t try to guilt their friends in to doing something they’re not comfortable with.
I’m a lovely friend, I’ll push you, but I can honestly say I never have, and never would push somebody to do something they really don’t want to do.
So you're telling me you don't help your friends transcend their self-imposed limits? #nolimitsDabz #DabzWithoutLimits #LimitPokerDabz
If they come to me and say “Dale, I want to push myself, I want to expand my horizons. I’m ready, but I need your help.” You bet your ass I’ll push them. I’ll push them so hard you wouldn’t believe!
However, if they say “Dale, leave me alone, don’t make me do things I’m not ready for.” Well, then I’m going to respect that.
I've tried to visualize how the fracturing of a society would happen, I think communities would band together and construct their own security dig Mass Graves Etc dispose of corpses