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Originally Posted by fredd-bird
Prob felt like an excellent (& easy) decision the first time around too, stop Monday morning QB'ing
No...actually she kept pressuring me into it & I kept on saying I wanted to go a week without having a major fight before proposing.
It never happened.
I finally gave in & proposed anyway because I felt like I actually deserved to be treated like crap because I had low self-esteem & it was sort of self-perpetuating that she would treat me like crap, which made me feel even worse about myself, & thus that I definitely should be treated that way.
It was absolutely a terrible idea at the time, & on some level I knew it.
Me & my gf have never fought that way, spend every day together & have a great time every day, she treats me amazingly, actually cares about me, even if we argue it's over in like 5 mins & we never say anything hurtful to eachother, & I really couldn't picture my life without her. She actually makes me feel like I'm a good person & I deserve to be happy.
I learned a lot from past experience. This is not that.
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Originally Posted by The Brickie
Oh you hopeless romantic you.
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Originally Posted by MsBlueberry
OK, same advice then. Propose and give the ring AWAY from the rail.
Duly noted.
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Originally Posted by MsBlueberry
Ya, it was a good way of doing something together since I had been slacking off on visiting and stuff and she had a great summer with her 60th birthday BBQ and all.
G'job
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Originally Posted by MsBlueberry
I'm great thanks! Have to save up now that I'm broke again and need $ for a fall meetup bonanza.
Glad to hear it
Any word on what the plan for that is going to be? I assume I have to miss it if it isn't in 2 weeks. Hopefully somebody will do an excellent TR with pics.