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Originally Posted by Dwarf Invasion
DGAF - I find it pretty interesting that you think it's bad for the game - can you explain why? This is a sentiment that I don't think most of your peers share. I doubt you'll change anyone's mind here, (myself included) but it would be interesting to hear your reasons.
slight derail, TLDR, cool story bro --> Funny enough, one of the only times I've ever been put in this spot was by Gman several years ago. We played a pot and got down to the river and I fired after bricking out. He knew his options were either hero call or fold, so he started fishing for info for about 30 sec.
I was decent enough about hiding information during a silent hand, but I wasn't really mentally prepared for a full interrogation and Gman is pretty skilled at getting a reaction. I stated silent, but eventually, I cracked and had an involuntary physical reaction to something he said. Gman makes the call (he probably would've called anyway) and 3rd pair is good to drag a ~$5k pot.
It had never occurred to me until that point, just to what extent our poker battle could deviate into this new front. We were playing a sub-game that I didn't know existed until I was already playing it. For that reason, that hand had a lasting impression on me.
I myself don't think this was bad form, but I sure would feel better about the couple thousand $$$ that Gman talked me out of if you could convince me otherwise
Anything that slows the game down unnecessarily is bad for the game. And I think I specifically said (if I didn't say it, I meant to) 99/100 it's bad when it's
a pro interrogating a rec/fish. The pot has to be really big/the spot has to be exceptional to make it OK imo- and if you are winning a lot and the rec/fish is losing a lot in recent history, it might not be OK under any circumstance.
It's just not good business long term to be too greedy or to alienate/embarrass/piss off a rec/fish in general. Just like a million other things you can do (or not do) at the table to gain a small advantage/earn a few bucks can cost you (and everyone else) a lot of money overall (hard to crush a game when it isn't going
). There are constantly judgment calls to be made at the table wrt right/wrong imo, and yet only the best pros evaluate all the grey areas/they don't just see everything as black and white/legal or not legal under the rules of the game...
As far as you trying to bluff gman and him going hanibal lector on you:
1. You are not a fish. Despite being friendly at the table/a nice guy, no1 cares if you quit. It is not bad for the game at all if you get pissed and stop playing.
2. The guy interrogating is always under zero pressure to keep his hand a mystery- he can literally turn over his hand and it can't hurt him/it can only benefit him. The guy being interrogated however is under a lot of pressure. He's the one who made the move (whether it was for value or as a bluff) and any info he gives away about his hand is extremely problematic/costly... Unless you are in a zen like state somehow (rare at the poker table) AND you like your side a lot in a leveling/reverse tell war, it's best to just remain still/silent and stare at the pot (whether you have it or don't). Your opponent will give up with the verbal stuff pretty quickly ime.
3. Next time make 2nd pair and win all the money ldo.