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Originally Posted by fuxxnuts
To the guy playing this past Friday afternoon at caesars: please stay off 2p2 LVL and glued onto phone while at the table. It’s -EV to do this, almost as -EV than watching a movie at a table.
Instead please become more engaging socially and talk to your customers. I promise that your hourly potential will increase by making this small change!
Mods, please lock if needed but I felt compelled to hopefully reach out to this vegas 1/2 reg who frequents this forum while playing.
Hey whats up dude, I assume this thread is about me. I felt we did have a fair amount of conversation, at least by my standards. We talked about Vegas, NY, Macau. You asked me about my hobbies outside of poker and I asked about yours. You mentioned you are a father and when you asked me if I have kids I joked "none that I know of." When someone notices me perusing 2+2 I don't usually see it as bad thing as I like running into fellow 2+2ers. Excuse me for not intepreting that as a signal to get off.
I totally get your position and do agree engaging in friendly banter and small talk with other players has value. I am generally more passive in this regard, if someone wants to talk I'll talk. Occassionally, I'll be more proactive and do stuff like try to cold read where a player is from based on accent or telling jokes. I'll admit I naturally tend to be on the quiet introverted/ socially awkward side. I actually have done certain things to break out of my shell like attending public speaking group Toastmasters and going to RSD seminars.
As an introvert I play a lot more hours of poker than I care to spend talking. Funny enough, my pet peeve is the opposite: loud, rude or disrespectful players, but I put up with it if the table is worth playing at. I get enjoyment out of browsing the web, conversing online and texting IRL friends. Phones and tablets are allowed to be used at most of the poker rooms in Vegas, though I understand that this behavior may not be allowed and deemed bad etiquette by some players from other poker markets or older generations. Personally, these activities don't bother me whatsoever, providing they can keep the action moving in a timely manner.
We all have different preferences and our own notions of what is acceptable behavior in a poker room. I try to balance my own comfort while catering to the recreational players. The ideal poker environment is different for each individual there is no absolute right or wrong.
Since you started this thread I felt obligated to acknowledge your opinion and try to understand your point of view to the best of my abillity while trying to explain my point of view as a shy, socially awkward grinder. No offense intended and none taken. If I happen to run into you at the tables again I'll remember your preferences and I promise I'll accommodate. Also, round of drinks on me.