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Originally Posted by Javanewt
Most of my co-workers who work in NYC commute more than an hour each way each day, so a one-hour drive doesn't seem bad at all. However, the hour of the day does matter -- on how safe it is to drive and the relationship. That said, my husband travels every week, and I'm fine with it. I actually love my time alone and it makes our time together even better.
Good luck, OP.
I've commuted just under an hour working in NYC personally and several major differences come to mind between that and what the OP is considering doing.
1. Driving for a commute and taking public transit are completely separate things. Most people in NYC use the subway, railway, bus, or a combination of those. When you use public transit you can read, sleep, and actually do work. Not the case behind the wheel.
2. I would assume, people commuting 1hr+ in NYC are doing this because the pay for that job is so much higher in NYC than a similar job next to where they live. Or, cost of living is so much less 1hr away from their job than living 10 minutes away. So in that 2hr+ roundtrip daily, they are actually making a decent hourly.
3. Most people commute in the morning to work and home in the afternoon. They are not sleepy on the way home and still have hours of awake time so they are still alert driving back home after straining their brains for 8+ hours at work.
Driving back home behind the wheel for over an hour after focusing on poker for 8hrs+ is gonna be difficult when it's pitch dark outside and 3am-6am in the morning. Even if the sun is coming up, OP would have to be on a crazy sleep schedule to not be heading straight to bed after getting home from work.
4. Most people in NYC have a guaranteed salary (or partially guaranteed) with benefits that they get daily. Playing poker would result in days when you drive 1+hrs to work, lose several hundred dollars, and then have to drive 1+hrs home knowing that it would have been way better to just stay at home that day and spend time with the wife.
Going to work the next day will be very psychologically difficult. Not impossible, but the long commute will be very psychologically challenging for someone grinding out poker.
5. A key measure of success with poker is your hourly. It's not the end all, be all, but when it comes to pay the bills every month and deciding whether to take a day off to spend with the wife or drive to Vegas for a Friday night of poker, it will be the top consideration (believe me!)
If OP is making $40 an hour at 2/5 over an 8 hour shift. His hourly just dropped to $32 an hour just because of the commute. And that is with 2hrs round trip. Where does he live? I think we are looking at 1.5hrs each way in reality, or possibly 2hr if he's in Kingman. At 1.5hrs each way (assuming he speeds like a maniac from Kingman, AZ) his hourly drops to under $30. That's a 25%+ penalty. When it's your own business, 25% is a huge penalty to pay.
I would recommend OP finds a cheap room to rent monthly in Vegas. Drive in on Friday mid-day. Grind crazy hours (sleeping in the cheap room rental) till late Sunday night/early Monday morning. Sleep it off and drive home Monday afternoon. Then spend Monday thru Thursday with the wife. I hope his wife works over the weekend and has her weekend midweek.