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Originally Posted by luckfactor
Wth all the lies and BS that Trooper feeds us I think it's interesting that he continues to (supposedly) give us accurate win/losses.
I don't think he lies in the sense of saying something untrue with the intention of deceiving the listener.
I believe he is disingenuous but truly believes his rational and excuses for not following through on something or completing a commitment are valid.
The later leads the listener to feeling deceived and mislead - but that wasn't Troopers intention. He fully meant to follow through with the weight loss challenge and felt his excuses for not showing up to the conclusion or acknowledging the loss beyond acting like he never tried is OK and acceptable. If you don't approve, he "doesn't give a ****." Will this lead to better things or greater success in any part of his life? Absolutely not but like he told me directly yesterday (very respectfully though) see above: I don't give a ****.
We can want better or different for Trooper all we want but we need to also listen to what he's telling us: for better or for worse he's going to do things exactly how he wants to - with all the faults and mistakes that come with it. It may not be the most successful way and there may be many other better ways; he doesn't give a ****. He's going to do it exactly how he wants to do it and that's all there is to it.
Those of us who do want to see him do different/better we should keep encouraging him to do so, however in my opinion. Because if you put ideas in his eyesight enough he may co-op them and start doing them