Wow I'm very sorry to hear about this. I don't understand why your bank won't help you more and try to get those charges reversed. I mean yes, you're a "homeless" (by choice) professional poker player, BUT YOU HAVE VLOGS TO PROVE WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU DO!
I hope you find a lawyer that can help you sort this out. In the meantime, please don't play poker for now. You can't play with that much pressure on you, it will ruin your whole game. Also, consider moving home and going back to work. It's only temporary, even if it's for a year, then slowly start to play on weekends or at night again and don't give a **** about the "social aspect" of moving back home. Who cares what people think?
Also keep the thread updated. You're just going through a little hurdle right now but you will be ok