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Originally Posted by juan valdez
why would someone regret it (genuinely)? if they still want the car in 2-5-10-20 years they can still buy it? if they cant then well perhaps they couldnt afford it in the first place
There's the real possibility that if he doesn't do it now, it's not going to happen in the future. If he thinks it's not worth it because it's a -EV decision, that's likely to be his reasoning later on as well.
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Originally Posted by juan valdez
maybe you know something i dont. are you just talking about a sick SNE grind and plo upswing?
That's a big part of it, but from reading his FB, sounds like a bunch of other crazy ****'s been going on. Mostly a few months back, and was mostly implied so I don't want to get into details.
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Originally Posted by juan valdez
that sounds like the daniel negraneau version of life advice. good sounding reasons to make a bad play
I guess we have a different opinion of what makes a "bad play" here. Enjoying life and doing something/buying something you've always wanted is unlikely to be a bad play. I'd say it's only money, but it's up to Joe how important this is to him.
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yeah that sounds like a good thing to do but the pitfall is people are probably delusional about how something like owning a ferrari will be like.
you mentioned you bought an expensive car and now it sounds like you dont think its a terrible idea for joe to buy a ferrari. if thats the case id be genuinely interested to read more on how you justify the purchase
imo a ferrari is like meeting a 10 at the bar, dolled up with all the jewelry, purse, etc. banging her is going to be great but as the saying goes for every hot chick theres a dude tired of banging her. the excitement/ joy of having a ferrari will fade along with its value. it will be very expensive to maintain, you'll need to take her shopping for new tires, brakes etc to keep her happy. when she gets old you'll still love her even though you want a younger model but the moment money gets tight the spending will get on your nerves and you'll probably start to resent her
i think getting drunk when you have to be up early the next day is a lesson you need to learn the hard way. i dont think wearing a seatbelt, unprotected sex, heroin, or spending 1/2- 1/3 of your net worth on a ferrari with no steady income are lessons you want to learn the hard way.
i would also caution joe to think about people who put less thought in to there post than klaric. saying "go for it, be a baller" is most likely coming from someone who lols if you went busto
For me, it helped clean out the inside of my head. I have a very different outlook on life/money at this point, and consider the money I "wasted" to be a big catalyst towards that point (car/house/traveling).
I'm trying to raise the point that there can be a lot of good results that can come from going down this path. Maybe he can get those benefits without buying the car. Maybe it doesn't matter.
And also (as has been said), he's not throwing out the entire value of the car. It's going to be a big chunk of money that's lost due to devaluation, but he seems pretty aware of how much that's going to be. That's the number we should be talking about here. 50k? 75k? Not sure, just guessing here... but 50-75k for him is obv a lot, but also still leaves him a ton behind.
The main point I'm behind here is that a lot of thought should be put into it, so that he can be happy with the decision he makes either way. If he buys it, people are going to say he's stupid for wasting so much money. If he doesn't, people are going to say he's stupid for backing out. Either way, it's going to be tough. No one can decide this for you Joe. Figure out what's important to you so that you can stand by your decision. You're going to have to for a while