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Originally Posted by _Goldseraph_
meh my best friends have dried up into acquaintances over the years, seems like when u get to 30 nobody stays in touch or puts work into their friendships anymore. everyone just moves around, has a family, gets obsessed with their kids/career and you never see them again. i went thru a tragedy a couple years ago and none of my best friends were there for me at all, anyway guess I'm a little bitter but like Doyle says I don't love any man.
true story
once upon a time i was even more physically appealing than i am now. a good friend of mine used to treat his gf of two years like **** and finally they broke up for a full month. i got really drunk one night and she blew me. after that i would bang her drunk but only cause she made me horny and i couldnt help myself. while this was going on another buddys off and on gf came up to me in front of a few people at a party and offered to hook up in the bathroom. im pretty sure i would have accepted but i figured girl #1 would find out and then the fact i was banging her would be uncovered. i told my buddy about girl #2 as a friendly warning. later my buddy with girl #2 got rid of her and got girl #3. he noticed her behavior around me and seemed uncomfortable. one night he woke up drunk and found one of our friends playing with #3s tits on the couch.
i told friend 1 about banging his ex and things were never the same. we were friends but drifted apart after that. friend 2 was noticeably different after these instances, my two buddies never spoke again and it drove a wedge and caused division among all the mutual friends.
i think its important to balance your personal life with family, spouse, and friends. a lot of people let friends drift away and focus on their spouse but its unhealthy to begin with and the majority of time things dont work out. the guy ends up all lonely and pathetic calling up friends hes ignored for years.
the moral of the story is dont be a dick to your friends. oh and even good looking people have problems