Hahaha. You aren't a circus performer, are you? Be yourself.

Sounds like y'all had fun though and you have another opportunity to **** her. TR required after next golf outing, obviously.

fyp

She seems to be giving off multiple IOIs, so don't forget to neg her if she is an HB9 or 10. Then go for the **** close in the clubhouse afterward

I'm not going to give you advice on what to do or what to say, but jesus christ dude, you're totally taking yourself out of it. She's CLEARLY into you and the only thing that is going poorly is some bull**** idea in your head that she couldn't possibly be into you.

Forget about keeping score with where you are with her. Just enjoy the time you spend together and keep going. Stop being a ****ing idiot by over analyzing everything.

OP

I think reid is correct, you are sweating over stuff you shouldnt be. You dont need to be some awesome, witty conversationalist at all times. Most girls wont continually go out of their way to initiate contact and hang out with you if they dont enjoy spending time with you.

PICS! OR GTFO = ) someone had to do it

Yup, and they did it in post 32.

This, unless you're not telling the entire story she seems pretty into you. Beware friend zone though.

She prolly has herpes, sorry bro. (unless you have herpes, then congrats!)

Guys, guys just chill for little bit. Reading the replies were great, some funny gems in there, thanks alot.

Not really sure how to put this in words but I'll try. First of all, I know I'm in. As soon as she obliged to join me at the bar that night, the deal was closed. We enjoy each others company and have fun times, no problems at all.

I just want to have better conversation skills. I work in sales, some of the top guys in the company have an awesome gift of gab. They are so quick, witty and entertaining. I am soooo jealous of that, I want that skill. We often take clients out for rounds and even on the course you must work it and be "on" if you know what I mean.

Just happens that this time around I am going golfing with a person I like and want her to be happy. Possessing good socializing skills will help in other aspects of life as well.

Alright, back to the chick. You know the times when inside you already know its in the bag but somehow wanna drag the process longer? Don't know how to put it, might be an ego thing of just wanting to be chased or liked. Kinda feels good and fun. She knows from the start that I am not interested in a relationship. It's bizarre, I just want to please her everytime we meet so I end up putting alot of pressure on myself to be that fun, entertaining person. FFS, I don't even know what I'm writing about now lol. Started the thread to seek some suggestions for good small talk on the golf course and somehow I end up explaining my experience with some chick. LOLz

Anyways, thank you for the tips guys I appreciate it.

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not to be a nit, but maybe you should just try being yourself and not worrying about appearing cool....

Stop trying worrying about get laid out of the deal and just have fun. It's just like going golfing with a male friend, but with better views.

You could give her a science lesson on how humidity actually makes the ball fly further. You'll sound really smart.

I wouldn't sweat it anymore. If you put this much pressure/stress on your conversational performance while golfing, you have little hope getting it up if you close the deal anyway.