i'm not all that worried about that girl.... that was just more surprising

i am far more worried about the total lack of hot girls in the place i would most prefer to stay for the rest of my life huhuhu

I don't really get why it's so important for the girl to be hot.

If I am looking for a gf yeah of course I want her to look good, if it's just a one night stand and I'm only interested in fu cking her I don't think it's as important.

Ok so maybe not an actually ugly girl, but an average meh girl is fine when it's just for sex one time.

That's my take anyway.

but it its always going to be just one time it is nice to have them be hot..... actually i think its kind of the opposite as you, if its a girlfriend i would be more concerned with her personality than her appearance, but when its just for fun then i want it to be as hot as possible at least some of the time.

right I want them to be sometime as well.

I'm just saying if you know you're going to be with a bunch of different girls it's fine if some are just meh looking because it's just for one night and you know you'll be with hotter ones other times, so it's all good.

Just like 'oh this one isn't very good at su cking dick ' then a second later you remember 'but I know the one I'm with tomorrow night will be better so whatever it's no big deal.'

but when you only see one or two 8's a month and 9's or better 2 or 3 times a year where does this 'oh well the next one will be really hot' confidence come from?

well just change your search methods maybe.

I don't know, anyway most important should be her sexual ability and quality of the sex.

Is the sex you're having with them good? If yes I wouldn't sweat the rest too much.

its ok but i vastly prefer bj's, i know a few good ones at that but they aren't all that hot and have been over many times

i want a 10 that gives good head damnit, actually i want a revolving door of those please


not really sure how to change my search methods, i use basically everything at my disposal........ actually there is one way, but its something i just never will be good at...... and since there will only be like one or two 9s there (if any) they won't pick someone who is awkward in those awful places

Well what you're suffering from then may be a case of I want my good life to be even better.

People always want more and better, but we're probably happier if we can enjoy what we have especially when it is already good.

What if you looked back to your life in Vegas instead.

I bet you're much happier with your current life than the one you lived in Vegas .

I guess all the hot girls are kicking ass in makati..

it's not 'dressing up', it's just not looking like a sexpat. i googled how you dress to get example pics and lol at first link



then i remembered i had a pic of a similar guy below left, except even baggier t shirt and trainers with holes in

(in b4 spiv sends this to interpol)



all you have to do is change that to the one on the right... in my local thailand tesco that would cost $10 shoes, $15 slim fit trousers (lightweight material not jeans, would get too hot), $5 slimfit t shirt

get white / grey / black t shirts and then just rotate the same outfit over and over

then work on personal grooming a bit

Baseball caps on anyone >16 are embarrassing

k2d b1tched about bad beats when he played poker, now that his life is the envy of 98% of the world he STILL manages to find another reason to b1tch,

solution: cum to a city with more hotties... hint hint

i doubt 98% of the world envies having headaches 95% of days for 4 months straight, but maybe


again jspill i would happily dress like a preppy dbag if the girls were worth it, the point is that there arent enough hot ones here to make it worthwhile to do so

go to a city where the average girl is hot and stupid..

move to thailand then they're worth it, hot and stupid. lack of english is a good thing, you don't have to listen to them

yeah i'm really gonna post a pic of him when he's had death threats...

nice cover up after posting me, at least you cant see my face

so wtf was this

meet a very hot girl on dating site, she texts me saying she was going to the mall with her younger sister, i ask her if we can hang out later and she says she will text me

she texts me after the mall saying she wants to meet me can they stop by, i want to use the 'i cant hang out with a minor' excuse as the reason why i dont want to hang out when she is with her sister so i ask how old is her sis, she says 7, i say sorry i cant have a minor over

she says to delete her number

lolwut?

I would have countered with meeting her in a public place if she was very hot. bought the kid some ice cream to shut her up and then go about conversing with her, pretending to be infatuated with her boring stories..

then again, the hell with it, she sounds like a bitch if she reacts like that

hot for phils as in 7.5-8 in her pics which means 6.5-7.5 when i meet up with her..... AKA not worth the effort of going out to do a first meet that won't end anywhere

but ya she does seem like a huge bitch

Dressing semi-ok is not uncomfortable at all. You ever tried? You wearing too tight clothes or something!? You can wear semi-ok clothes very cheaply. Just don't wear t-shirts with massive logo or picture on it and you'll be fine. I dress average as **** but have got complimented about it because its different to 90% of expats. (In the bars that I go. I'm sure there's loads of expats which dress normal in more normal bars/clubbing)

Too be honest...clothes IMO...are more about the fit than anything else though..wearing really baggy stuff would be a turn off if I was female (lol at me just saying that)

i used to wear REALLY baggy stuff

now i wear semi baggy stuff after jspill, his gf, and ezyano held an intervention for me outside of a disco last year

honestly that's a better success rate than I was expecting. I hate getting phone numbers, such a huge waste of time and that seems especially true in phils. Just nail her that day or its not worth it imo. At least most of the time. Regarding the 60 year olds:

So much number 1. These guys aren't going to be bargaining their price down and will probably just be throwing money at the girl anyways. Young guys aren't. Another problem is that their vaginal is their livelihood if some young guy is going to town of them it's possible they aren't earning for awhile because their main asset is sore. My korean friends always go to this one pick up bar and so many of the girls snub me there. A few are willing to talk with me and go home but it's not like my Korean friends. I asked one of the girls why this was and we had this conversation:

"Oh its because all the girls there just looking for d tree tree tree."

me: "what is 3 3 3"

"Omg you dun know tree tree tree?"

"No what is it"

"Tree inches, tree minutes, tree thousand"

j Ave tho? I've been wanting to check it out.

That might be in high demand. I'd like to help you search for it because it might coincide with my own interests.

pretty sure k2d will like hcm more

Amazing if true lol. Jspill seems like a cool guy too hope we can meet sometime. My offer to buy you a water is still on the table if you find yourself in manila or if I go to cebu btw.

oh ya it's true, was during one of the most tilting weeks of my life (when i was coming off big 888 rush and really needed to play poker and cebu internet was so bad, and i was getting hardcore rejected by korean chasers in j ave, and other small things were pissing me off also)

basically we all sat around a table outside of M02 and they took turns calling me a pathetic loser that would never be able to get a girl in my giant oversized t shirts and i just sat there crying on the inside

It's just so difficult being white in asia these days, that's a shame but I'd still like to check it out.

Sorry you got your feels hurt man but glad you are dressing better.

ya the new $2 or $3 tshirts i got fit much better