Update, some questions-
Slappz and others in Chang Mai -
October is an optional working month here, where there's only small camps where you get hourly and not much work. So holiday for the non-bustos. I was really wanting to get a resort-type rooom/condo in CM for that month and have my brother come visit. He’s just not really into the whole traveling around seeing tons of sights, though if my Thai is good that might change things. Was planning to just play some poker, (he's getting pretty good, has mad potentials), kick it by the pool and go out for some fun at night, (he's a little more low-key than me). Feasible? Good idea? Heard CM has the best girls, and it'll be nice to get away from uber-thai-thailand at that point, which would also kinda freak him out.
Stomach is feeling so much better, I only have a small fridge so I can get fruit and stuff. Also the Thai-desk-ladies where I’m staying cook the best food I've found here so sick brag there, (20-30bt per plate, standard)
Cooking for myself is bad for a million reasons starting with I can't cook, (I'm 24 btw) We'll have to work on that Thai gf here for that. As someone mentioned, it's more just difficult to eat 3 meals a day, I take a multi-vitamin and drink as much liquid fuel as possible. I'm doing relatively amazing now compared to what I'm hearing is the norm; I was mostly hung-over on that last post.
Night out-
Take cab downtown, Nice chill spot outside for beers, dime waitresses to practice Thai on, relaxed and just three of us chilling. Some Thai dudes with a little English get us shots and lead us to a super-popping spot, which is allegedly Mafioso (people just say that to be cool but NST is known for being an org. crime hub in Thailand, some internet sites about this but biggest concern is massive islamic population on provinces 2 below mine)
It's fun but I think the Thai guys want this Norweigian girl, (which they can have, 5/10 in USA, 3/10 in Scandanavia IMO) and not much is going on, 'Wanna play truth or dare?' lol. I go to the bathroom, pretty wasted at this point, and decide to take a long way back to the group. I get waved over and pulled to a table of Thais. Better English, drinking games, great times.
Sincerely nice people, but Thais also do the thing where they put the hand on your knee to be like 'we like you' and I know this and understand what it means, but in my drunken I get maybe a little homophobic and it’s tough to hide that it's kind of creepy. The other teacher and ms Norway, (Thai guys struck out) find me and are like "WE WERE SO WORRIED ABOUT YOU" a little over the top, I had a mobile so wtf. It's getting later, and the drinks hit me too hard, and I don't want to embarrass myself so I leave another extremely enjoyable group of people I'll likely never see again.
I walk outside and boot somewhere, group of taxi-drivers are coming to me asking where I live, if I'm ok. “Sabaii….(puke)…..Dii!” I tell them where I live, (5km away) and show 500baht note to which they wave hands 'no' Two guys double up so I don't fall off the scooter, one is rubbing my back on the way home, (gay but definitely helped) and they have to pull over for another nice puke. I get back safe and sound and again try to give them the 500baht, they flatly refuse.
NOTE: Memory of this story gets spotty about when the farangs found me at the 2nd club, remember puking outside, remember back-rubbing, remember puking again, remember offering the 500-baht note in front of our complex to the drivers and them refusing, (and found the note crumpled up in my jeans pocket and not in my wallet)
I’m guessing they refused the money because I only had the 500 note and it would be like 150 or so. Even though I was making it very clear I would have paid 3x that to get home then and there.
Wake up and have everything with me and fine, but really upset that I got that drunk.
I wasn’t passing on the free drinks, (pre-gamed before too, dumb) and I just haven’t eaten much and not the best stomach time to start with. At 100% health I would’ve been fine, but just a lesson learned. From my handle you guys can guess alcohol is not my drug of choice and I would prefer to be like a 2-3 drink guy and just chill and try to get laid and make Thai friends. Also, just don’t want to be that guy and massively apologized to the Thai Desk Ladies who I’m sure saw me stumble up four flights of stairs.
English Teachers-
Teachers are turning more and more into what you guys assume they are, I'm still confident I got pretty lucky that they're not as bad as the guys in Surat Thani, (pretty sure I posted about how sketch they were)
I'm about 90% sure the guy that took me out in ST had planned to rob/extort me at the end of the night. Seemed like a very basic scam: Take newbie out to club in town he doesn't know, newbie doesn't want to buy my scooter, make him buy my scooter or just say 'hey you owe me for the night' (GWM pwns this guy unknowingly and gets TukTik to take him home, what a luckbox)
Good news-
There's a 40ish woman staying here from Missouri who could not care less about money and may be my confidant. Teaches very advanced kids privately, her kids back home just graduated high school, she’s doing what she always wanted to do but couldn’t bc she got the preggers young. Hi mom. She kind of confirmed the Farang-sketchness and definitely has heard stories similar to mine that usually end bad, (dumb of me to go out with rando-farang, never again)
I haven't mentioned poker obv, it's just someone where I don't have to listen and silently agree with stupid statements like "I'm going to get a desk fan when we get our first paycheck, (JUNE 9TH, OUCH!)" or "Dude, we found a way where you can save like less than $2 with a lot of effort"
Lamest thing about this bustoness is that it’s just assumed I am, and I’m hiding it from them or just not splurging making it obvious. I feel bad/awkward and don’t want to make it clear that I’m not busto as well. Also I’m not super-rich or even regular rich at all, but next post will be Thai prices in NST so you’ll see. These guys are like sitting on their last couple hundred baht, when I told them about offering the 500bt to the drivers they thought I was nuts.
This sucks along with never wanting to take private transportation, wasting time searching for deals, and having days where we like walk around the town not buying anything or eating out, (sans the 100bt massage we found).
Meanwhile, I'm getting contacted by Neteller and they're letting me know I've got a good chunk of money just sitting in there from like 3 years ago that I haven't touched since I was living in Sweden, (had no idea of this, if I didn’t re-direct my old emails they would’ve emptied it slowly with inactivity fees) Ship it.
While we're all getting Thai massages, the girls see my phone (blackberry, newer non-storm big-size one, so not super fancy) and say -
"ooooohhh people like so much in Thailand, American brand, 20.000baht, very fancy, very nice" and the two others guy are definitely interested in hearing that for the wrong reasons. No happy ending fyi, open curtains all three hanging out getting our joints popped.
I re-read this and I'm being a little over-judgmental. Or a lot. I really don’t want to alienate myself but I stick out badly.
-I’m 5-6 years younger than everyone in the program, as well as everyone we’ve met (except norway but she looks 32 lol)
-I don’t have a TEFL certificate or experience in ESL. I have taught debate camps to rich kids for good money, and was a private tutor for a big D-I athletic program. These things wont prepare me for nutballz thai kids, (I observed a class of middle-schoolers, wow, I have high-schoolers at a very expensive school so not as much but I’m preparing myself for the worst) but I doubt two weeks of 5 hour classes in Barcelona or Phuket will either.
Places require only a degree, and the headmaster here is saying your ability to present yourself, dress nice, butt-kiss in Thai and have a fancy resume means the most, (which GWM is 4/4 there, Ok ¾ if we count the public puking, LETS PRETEND THAT NEVER HAPPENED)
NOTE: I had planned to do a TEFL, but sent out apps/resumes saying I hadn’t but was planning on it when I knew whew I was going to teach and found the right fit. Our company hired me without one and I just didn’t have time to book one, (<1 months notice).
The other teachers had like TEFL story time and every 5-10 minutes or so would look over at me (obv I have nothing to contribute to the convo) and be like “I HAVE NO IDEA HOW YOU PULLED THIS JOB WITHOUT ONE BRO, SO LUCKY” I respond being like, “I’m just going to work extra extra hard, I’ve taught before, I’ll always be early, have the straightest tie, etc etc”
“YA YOU SHOULD BECAUSE YOULL REALLY NEED TO”
So they don’t think I deserve the job, b/c years of teaching and being a good student/nerding out is so inferior to your TEFL program.
-I am not Beaver Cleaver-looking but close, (some french/italian blood) Very ‘milk and cookies’ looking as I like to call it. The other teachers are-
-Half-Mexican from San Diego
-40+ Aussie, seems nice but I doubt he’ll stay, he just seems to feel out of place
-Half-black guy from Seatlle
First thing HB guy talks about when we meet is some black-pride stuff and how that’s very important to him (direct quote, ‘the revolution is not over, there is still work to be done’) and how it’s so hard for him to get a job anywhere because he’s half black. Don’t really know what to say to that one, not trying to go there so fast or really ever bro
NOTE: Last group that taught here one of the teachers was asked to be an ambassador for the governor of the NST province. He was supposedly not a good teacher, just the governor loved him and wanted someone to improve his English with that was a native-speaker, (lots of “He’s sucking his dick” jokes are made) Point of the story is the headmaster believes the fact that the dude was an Obama look-a-like with a british accent were reasons 1, 2, and 3 he got the posh seat. Gotta love Thailand.
Point is I get the farang-attention a lot more even though it’s not ridiculous. I also am the only one who practiced Thai before they came here and is really trying to learn/practice it while they chill and do nothing a lot of the time. I’ve passed everyone of our group with my Thai skills and farang wise am only behind my previously mentioned interim-mom who has been here 1.5 years and made an effort. So nice Thai lessons at that TEFL school bro. I’m guessing me speaking Thai is probably a bigger reason why I get that attention rather than race, but I mean so many different brands of skin-whitening cream? WTF
Wow I wrote way too much, but if you all haven’t noticed I kind of describe and side-note a lot. A lot of the times we have fun and just hang out, but these described events are becoming a little more frequent after the newness wears off. It’s mostly one guy (HBG), as usual in these things. It’s fair to say that I would not be friends with any of these guys at home, but I can find ways to have fun with anyone. I even quietly offered HBG some money in private when I first got here after he told me he got robbed in Malaysia, (which is true). He said “no you got to watch out for your own **** man.”
Well today I’m rolling out to see the biggest college in this area of Thailand which is Walailak University in NST. I’m gonna just see what’s up there, but future plans are to post something to get english/thai lesson exchanges and work on getting in with some of those people who I assume have some of the better English of Thais.
Thanks everyone for all the comments and responses, (there are some questions in there!) Here’s a zoomed in Google maps of where I’m living
http://maps.google.co.th/maps?q=benj...N&hl=en&tab=wl