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Originally Posted by kick2dante
reading comprehension is something you could improve on
i never once tried to get any girl from j ave to go with more for free
it was a freeroll asking that girl if she would come to my room for something, im leaivng the city soon, she had quit responding to my texts asking her to lunch, and i am to messed up right now to have any chance of succeeding with her in any other way......... from the get go i knew i had a tiny chance anyways she is a rare one, i havent seen a 10 in asia yet and if she is as good as her pics look she is one........ and whats she gonna say? she doesnt know my name, doesnt have mutual friends with me, lives in lapu lapu and doesnt hang out in the same places i do........... and even if she does say it to someone wtf do i care if i live on a different island?
the life tilt is from how horrible my first week went, no internet so no work so to much free time, every little thing going wrong, being in discos is pretty tilting in itself, walking up to hot girl in disco saying hi her putting her fingers in her ears and saying lalalalalalalalala until i walked away and she went back to her table of korean guys............ its not one thing that makes me life tilt its a few big things followed by 20 or 30 lil small things in a row all going against me
i live a solitary life that most people wouldnt like but i do, but a big reason its tolerable is because i play 6-10 hours a day, i barely even play here so add another 4-6 hours a day of free time while going crazy and it aint fun or healthy
My reading comprehension is just fine.
Your general M.O. from your entire posting history pretty much says you are always trying to bang hookers and normal girls for free. This in itself is not necessarily a bad thing, but getting tilted by it is insane.
This perfect 10 of yours, you pretty much tried to bang a "hooker" for free, and when you couldn't, you offered her money, but you couldn't meet her price and then got tilted when she wouldn't close the deal.
Your argument here is going to be something like, SHE ISN'T A HOOKER.
I'm sorry, but I sure hope your standard plan of action when failing to close with a NORMAL GIRL ISN'T TO TREAT HER LIKE A HOOKER and offer her money for sex.
If you think this is a freeroll or think it's ok, then it's symptomatic of why you have so much trouble and tilt with normal women in the Philippines (or elsewhere for that matter).
And getting ignored by hot "legit" women in clubs here is the norm and not worth tilting about. Filipinos are cliquish, and if you don't know somebody that knows somebody that knows her, you are out of luck. I agree it's stupid, but that's the culture, deal with it. If it's a non-legit girl, then obviously you have to compete financially, and Koreans pay a lot. Singaporeans generally pay more, but that's a different story. Is it supposed to be a wonder when they don't want to talk to you? As in Thailand, if a girl in the Philippines wants to have sex with you fast or not insist that you meet her family, then she's "probably" not a legit girl.
I agree Internet blows in the Philippines, but again, get a couple of different providers, move around a bit, find a place that is stable, and go from there. Again, deal with it.
You say you are comfortable living your kind of life, but yet you constantly complain about how much things suck and everything goes wrong. You are not consistent and probably you are lying to yourself.
Seriously, I'm not trying to be an ass here, but you need some counseling or reflection on your life. For somebody that has been here for a while, you don't seem to know, acknowledge, or deal with some of the most basic cultural differences between the Philippines and where you came from.
I had a friend move here from the States about 6 years ago. He cracked within the first year. Basically went nuts and complained about everything. He even claimed that all Filipinos are stupid and can't understand simple things. I told him the only Filipinos he interacted with on a regular basis were the staff of McDonalds, Starbucks, and whatever restaurant he had dinner at. He didn't get it.
You sound like this guy.