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Originally Posted by Syndr0m
Her feet are definitely not the problem. Those are gorgeous.
It's not like she's doing anything wrong or I'm missing something, I just have very little desire to have sex. I do like a lot of affection and kisses and hugging and cuddling, but as soon as she puts her tongue in my mouth or tries to get in my pants I feel like I want to escape.
I know I could do oral and yes that would satisfy her but I'd end up feeling like a sex slave, which may come as a surprise but is not really an enjoyable feeling. She has used sex toys in front of me or during sex and I'm completely fine with that. I even like it because it works like a PED. Easier to get results.
We have talked about it and I've expressed many times that I have a low libido, her reactions vary from "it's okay, it's not your fault, I can wait as long as we need to" to "you're not attracted to me anymore, you're not interested in me, do you want someone else?" The last one comes up way more often. We haven't come up with any solution. I don't want someone else.
Hmmm...Have you ever heard of of a "whenever they want it" week? Usually this is featured in Cosmopolitan and the like aimed at the woman, but no reason you couldn't give it a try. Just spend a week mindlessly servicing on demand--and she has to *know* that's the rule for the week. You may, in fact, find you do like it and if not, well jesus, at least the poor girl got her way for a week.