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Originally Posted by ArturiusX
I've never seen someone miss the point, using clumsy "statement 1" type stuff is hilarious.
Sure, have a laugh. Amusing to see somebody telling me I am missing the point, while I am pointing out the flaws in their statements. Weak comeback really, but ok.
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You focused on the nerd part, probably because you took offense to it for some reason.
Meh, not really offense. You are just wrong, but that is ok.
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My point was more, PUA doesn't teach you the real socialising skills, just bandaid fixes to problems to do with awkwardness.
I quote myself, from post 192 in the dating/relationship advice thread:
"my point was that most dudes do not look beyond the easy lay. And I can't blame them, because kids/candystore.
But the ease of picking up becomes an end in itself, while I am referring more to the inner game issues. Think about it, you become very good with girls, and that to a lot of guys serves as a band-aid for other, deeper issues that they have.
Inner game is what I am getting at, you must know the term."
The rest of my posts in this thread should make you aware that I am advocating looking beyond the whole sexual aspect of PUA. So we are at least on the same page there.
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The other point was the whole appeal of PUA is to do with stroking ones ego anyway, hence the target nerd market, what one category keeps nerds (and others) from feeling truely superior to randoms? As long as a guy is ****ing a lot of women, the nerd will probably feel inferior to him.
I do not see what is intrinsically wrong with this, we human animals all have the need to have our ego stroked once in a while.
But you are onto something here, however, I don't think this is exclusive terrain of nerds. One of my buddies has the (imo) pathetic habit of stealing women away from other guys. She can be as hot as hell, but if she is single, he is not interested.
The moment he finds out she is seeing someone, he will go out of his way to have his way with her. Which is quite easy to him, because he is tall, well built, muscly, and has the face of a greek god.
Maybe the term "nerd" should be seen in a much broader context in this discussion.