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Originally Posted by theBruiser500
i am interested in hearing stories about the super agressive guys interacting with women
If I am not mistaken you are referring to the Portenos being super aggressive towards the women. The rumors are in fact true...a majority of guys seem to employ the caveman approach. It usually entails un cavernicola (as I aptly call them) getting in a girl's face/touching her and basically saying everything you shouldn't say to a girl you have just met while his entourage of giddy friends await their chance to get shot down. Even if there is clearly no chemistry the cavernicola will sometimes shamelessly attempt several unsolicited kisses that usually get shot down. Sometimes you see furtive ass grabs in clubs, but it usually isn't that extreme. The average cavernicola isn't exactly paranoid about getting slapped with a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Every once in a while a girl who appears to not be interested gives in after the fifth or sixth attempt and it is a testament to the value/necessity of effort. Keep in mind however that kissing an Argentine girl does not have the same level of promise that it does when you kiss an American girl and this might deceive some people when they first get down here. Portenas have an insatiable fix for attention and half an hour of making out in a bar is not in the slightest a guaranteed springboard into a one night stand.
The aggression is common and just walking down the street with an attractive girl will inspire middle aged cavernicolas to unabashedly tell her how nice her body is or how much of a luck box you are. One time a truck driver cranked his e-brake while flying through an intersection so he could berate me for not kissing my girlfriend long enough.
It can definitely be much harder to judge a girl's level of interest when she rarely needs to express it. The exceptionally hot ones ward off throngs of cavernicolas on a weekly basis and usually have about three or ten boyfriends if not in an exclusive relationship. I'm not suggesting that the girls are cold and unapproachable, just that they have come to expect quite a bit more time and effort than American girls. If you are planning on coming down here start honing your Spanish and thickening your skin now.
Cliff notes: The women in BsAs are accustomed to extreme levels of aggression and said aggression manifests itself in widespread passivity and some flakiness.