Part Eight: A matter of time
I had a monkey account on FTP with the username suicideblonde1. I'd opened it under a false name a few weeks after my accident with the intention of bettering another forum regular who'd once managed to get to 1000 posts posing as a female. I'd been useless at it though, and was rumbled within a few hours of my first post so the account had been forgotten about until now. But now it was ideal for Joanne to use, I could send her $100 and she could play some micros and get used to the idea of managing her own bankroll. So that's what we did. She played a few $3 90-man SNGs and quickly got bored of not winning any money, but at least she'd tried to show an interest.
My left leg was out of plaster by April, and I was able to move on to crutches a few weeks later and return to work. I'd been on statutory sick pay for a month, which was the equivalent of about one day's pay per week, so I was keen to get back on full pay as soon as possible and my employers were anxious to make me earn my money. I was a recruitment consultant and my job description covered everything from making sales calls to potential client companies, through managing the accounts and requirements of established clients, to desperately calling all the available workers on the system and persuading them to work when one of our clients was short staffed. My broken leg meant I was unable to do the fun parts of the job like entertaining clients at sporting events and driving round the country on enhanced mileage expenses, and was limited to sitting at my desk grinding out volume in sales calls. I couldn't even pull my usual time bandit tricks like wandering round the office, offering to walk to the sandwich shop and stepping outside for a cigarette, so the days were really long. Joanne didn't drive, so I had to rely on a lift in to work from another guy in the office, but he finished later than me so I had to hang around for an extra hour at the end of my day. I was regularly exhausted when I returned home and I'd often go straight to bed for a lie down. This in turn led to Joanne and me spending even less time together, as she herself would set off for work a few hours after I got home.
I'd expected it, but it didn't make it any less depressing. Joanne sat me down one night, got me a beer out of the fridge and told me her friend Sarah (with whom we'd had the threesome on my birthday six months ago) was keen to come round and give me some special attention. I knew immediately what this meant: Joanne was eager to sleep with someone else but wanted my blessing and had persuaded her slutty friend to sort me out first. I pointed out the fact that I still had a broken leg, and asked her who she had lined up for herself. Her attempt to look confused and offended was utterly unconvincing, and she soon conceded that her friend Joe from work had made it clear that he'd like to move things up a notch from their regular, innocent flirting. I told Joanne in no uncertain terms that although I'd agreed in principle to the open relationship idea, I wasn't ready to start it right now and I felt let down by her desire to jump into bed with someone else after everything that had happened. She argued that she'd been amazingly patient and had suppressed her urges for half a year while I recovered, and she'd been honest enough to come out and tell me what she wanted to do before doing it. She could easily have screwed Joe a dozen times and not said a word to me about it, but she loved me and she thought I understood her.
I realised I was being made to feel guilty for refusing to allow the woman I lived with to have sex with another man, and I became indignant and refused to back down. I told her I wasn't breaking any promises, I'd only ever agreed to consider this idea and since then I'd almost died so the circumstances had changed. I said I was still open to the idea of an open relationship, I just wasn't ready yet and she needed to know that anything she did with this guy would be a breach of trust. Like a rebellious teenager who'd been warned off by her parents, Joanne reluctantly agreed and promised to remain faithful to me. But the seed had been sown and it was only a matter of time.
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Part Nine: The Green Eyed Monster
I was a straight-A student at school even though I hung round with the "wrong crowd", and had always been proud of my ability to remain popular with the cool kids despite actually reading books for fun, some of which didn't even have pictures in them. One drawback to being educated was my tendency to over-analyse everyday situations, and right now I was doing it on steroids. Joanne had attempted and failed to persuade me that we should start seeing other people, and I couldn't stop myself from anticipating what was going to happen next. After all, I'd correctly predicted so many of the conversations we'd have before they'd happened. I'd also been proven right about her previous cheating with Mike, so I was clearly capable of getting inside the head of this erratic woman. It seemed obvious now that she'd inevitably sleep with Joe, in fact it was possible that she already had. I couldn't imagine her maintaining any level of restraint or respect for long, she was an impulsive sex maniac who was used to getting her own way. Now that the seeds of doubt had been planted, it would be impossible for me to trust her. In a particularly ludicrous example of my tendency to over-think, I found myself considering Shakespeare's Othello and the "green eyed monster" of jealousy that would destroy everything and could never be escaped.
Not poppy, nor mandragora, nor all the drowsy syrups of the world, shall ever medicine thee to that sweet sleep which thou owedst yesterday.
Once you are consumed by jealousy, you will never sleep soundly again.
I'd never had an emo stage as a teenager, but now my isolation from the outside world, coupled with my conviction that Joanne would inevitably betray me, encouraged me to torment myself with images of what she was up to every time she left the house. I'd previously ignored my suspicions but had later been proven right, so I was now convinced that everything Joanne did had a sinister ulterior motive. If she left for work early, she was having a drink with Joe before starting her shift. If she was home late, she'd been back to his place. Whenever she received a text message, it was from him. When we had sex, she was thinking of him. I became aggressive and moody, I'd take any trivial argument as a sign that Joanne no longer wanted to be with me and my attitude towards her went from affection and respect to cold disdain. Joanne asked me what was wrong but I'd refuse to talk about it and we'd often sit in silence.
Even my virtual life became affected by my paranoia. Though I did my best to maintain my image as a happy-go-lucky poker enthusiast, my short temper betrayed me and I began to lash out on the forum whenever some unsuspecting noob wore my patience thin by making an obviously stupid post. Some of the older members seemed shocked by my occasional outbursts, but the younger ones found my vitriol hilarious and encouraged me to rage harder.
My days at work were long and monotonous, I was still unable to drive so I was stuck behind a desk making endless phone calls. I was constantly distracted by the thought of what Joanne was doing while I was out of the way, so I'd often text her and become even more suspicious if she didn't reply instantly. Sometimes I'd even call the land line in an attempt to prove to myself that she was either not at home or too busy screwing Joe to come to the phone. I was frustrated by the fact that I couldn't leave the office and casually drive past our house to see whose car was up the drive, so I decided to enlist the help of my nosey neighbour Bill. Bill didn't miss a trick, he was like a human surveillance camera, he'd be able to confirm my suspicions or put my mind at ease. All I had to do was figure out a way to extract the information from him without revealing that I was suspicious of Joanne, and without her finding out.
Bill was a keen gardener, and our lawn was overdue a good mowing. This presented the perfect opportunity, so one Saturday afternoon while Joanne was out shopping with the kids I knocked next door and asked if I could borrow Bill's lawnmower. As he led me to his garage I explained that Joanne had lent our mower to a friend from work, the big black guy who worked on the doors, presumably Bill had seen him at our house recently? To my surprise (and relief), Bill shook his head. Nope, never seen anyone fitting that description. I shrugged and allowed myself a brief smile. Brief because Bill continued:
"That middle-aged bloke in the Audi's round almost every day though, you sure she hasn't lent it to him?"
And boom went the dynamite. In that moment I was sure that Bill had seen my reaction and was aware that my girlfriend "letting another man use her lawnmower" was a powerful euphemism.