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07-17-2019 , 01:53 AM
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Originally Posted by InternetPoints
How do you guys find homegames to play in LA?
Ask around in a 5/10+ game
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08-03-2019 , 09:58 AM
What types of places to live have you liked/disliked in the past?
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08-03-2019 , 04:00 PM
Please get a vasectomy.
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08-03-2019 , 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Shuffle
Where should a single 37 year old guy move to in L.A.?

Los Feliz
Brentwood
Westwood
Koreatown
Downtown
Somewhere else?

Don't really know the city at all. Throwing darts at this point.
I’m single around that age and live in a downtown highrise. I’d say that’s the best singles option. Lots of bars, restaurants and entertainment within walking distance. Basically the entirety of downtown is walkable within two miles. Women in many other areas will see it as like a destination date to come out to that bar they’ve been hearing about downtown. A small highrise unit with a view is going to be at least $2,500/mo. Koreatown is a place people live to be close to downtown for less. Brentwood doesn’t seem like a good singles area. Westwood only makes sense if your plan is to pick up on UCLA coeds. Los Feliz is a hip area but things are more spread out, transit access is less and housing options are more houses or duplexes over large buildings. DTLA has easy access to multiple freeways and metro lines. Hollywood could be another option.
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08-03-2019 , 06:20 PM
Do not come to Hollywood, we are not suburban, quiet or low crime.
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08-03-2019 , 07:58 PM
Well, he’s said that all of that stuff is what he wants to settle into ultimately but not what he’s expecting out of LA. I mean, Shuffle, you can live in the West Valley/Las Virgenes area and get more of a suburban vibe while still being close enough to occasionally go into the city for a meeting. Still some hotties out there.
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08-04-2019 , 02:00 AM
Marina del Rey is very chill and is supposed to be one of the best places for singles. The South Bay where I live is even more chill and there's plenty to do for singles. There's also Santa Monica and Venice.

You need to just get some temporary accommodations in LA - then check out the vibe of each place. You'll know pretty quick what you like.
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08-04-2019 , 03:22 PM
It’s definitely different in LA for the suburbs in terms of what you might see in other cities. LA is just a very spread out place. I grew up in the Valley, 30 miles from downtown, but that’s still being an Angeleno. You’re still part of LA County. There are a lot of single women all around — the Valley, Pasadena, Glendale, Long Beach, Riverside, the OC. In fact, the number of younger single women living in all those areas is likely going to be more than downtown simply due to the cost of living downtown. I don’t meet too many late 20s/early 30s women who live out here. If they do, they have roommates. Coming into downtown can be fun for a woman, but they also might want to avoid it because of the traffic, one-way streets and paying for parking. I can set them up with free parking at my building (which isn’t usual in buildings downtown) but that’s not really useful on a first date, because no woman wants the first thing they do when meeting a guy to be going alone with him into a parking garage.
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08-15-2019 , 02:09 AM
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I like quiet, low crime, suburban / small town living with no traffic, but those kinds of places are only good if you're married, not so good if you're single in your 30s. I left the Midwest and don't ever intend to go back. Even Chicago didn't work out for me, although I never lived in the city because I was playing poker and saving money.

Quick background:

When I was 25 I dropped out of college my senior year and decided to be a screenwriter. Unfortunately, you don't learn anything overnight, and after a year or two I was broke. Worked some temp jobs to pay the bills and then got into poker ever since. Too stubborn to finish my degree and now that I'm older, I wouldn't be happy in that career anyways. Didn't date anyone for a long time mid-20s until early 30s, then after a few years, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up beginning of last year. Went on some dates, had a sugar baby for a few months, then nothing. No love life, no social scene for a year, just cards and loneliness and, eventually, drinking.

So finally I started to panic about winding up alone and also not doing anything with my life. Sold everything and came out here to Vegas to play the series this summer, ran the worst I have ever run, then no plan after that. Literally no idea where I'm going. Thought about moving to L.A., thought about moving to S.F. or Santa Clara County, thought about just traveling around the world. I have a few hundred thousand saved up, but the more I thought about it, the more that last option seemed awfully indulgent.

I guess Bay Area is a sausage fest, impossibly high male:female population ratio, and once upon a time I decided to be a screenwriter after all, so L.A. it is. Time to make a last stand.

I'm not broke, but I don't have any job or career or dependable income, so buying a house is out of the question. I started looking around for apartments in the $2k-3k / mo. range. That seems to be average for anything decent in the city. I asked some woman where she might recommend, and she said "what scene are you looking for?" I thought for a moment and said, I don't know, young professionals? I probably don't fit in with that crowd anymore, but who exactly does a 37 year old single man fit in with anyway? I'm drawing to an inside straight, Hoping to succeed in a career, and maybe meet an attractive mid-late 20s woman who is solid wife potential if I'm lucky. Doesn't seem likely, but tired of poker and few other options at this point.
Whatever area you move to you will be prone to hanging out in that general area most of the time due to traffic etc. If u live DWTN yr not dating a girl who lives on westside, etc. Don't live in the suburbs, try something different for a year and at worst be uncomfortable. Yr not buying a house.For 2.5-3k rent a airbnb for a month on westside, in south bay, dwtn, near Grove etc.

I'd go Culver City over Brentwood if you go Westside. Had several acquaintances move out to LA in mid to late 30s in past 2 years and they couldn't afford Santa Monica so ended up going Culver area. One is now married to girl he met and having a kid in 3 months.

South Bay is more chill area with different vibe if you like the beach.
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